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mistakendreams's avatar

Should I kiss her?

Asked by mistakendreams (51points) September 17th, 2018

we have been friends for a long time and yesterday i asked her out and i’ve wanted to kiss her for a while but i don’t know if i should or how she will react she like me ALOT and put up with a lot of my shit. but she still likes me i was planning on walking her to her class and kissing her before she goes in should i do it or no?
we are 16 JTLYK

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elbanditoroso's avatar

1) not without her OK

2) not on school grounds

3) not with her boyfriend looking.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Maybe wait for the date since you already asked her out. That would be much nicer than in school. Good luck!

janbb's avatar

Don’t kiss her in school in front of people. That’s a dick move. @elbanditoroso has it covered.

zenvelo's avatar

It bears repeating: you NEED to ask her first.

And she’ll like it more, too. “I so want to kiss you; may I?”

LadyMarissa's avatar

I know times are a changing; but, I NEVER liked being asked for permission to kiss me!!! Even when I wanted to kiss him, IF he asked, I always responded NO. I agree that doing it in school is NOT a good idea & I’d save it for a private moment like the date. DON’T force a kiss on her; but, I suggest that you slowly lean in & IF she doesn’t want to be kissed, she’ll pull away. IF she’s ready to kiss you, she’ll lean in to you & the kiss will be complete. At 16, I bet she’s just waiting on you to kiss her or she wouldn’t have accepted the date!!!

elbanditoroso's avatar

@LadyMarissa – when you were young (which is probably about when I was young), boys could just reach over and do a smooch and not get into any trouble. For me, that was the late 1960s and early 1970s.

I believe that in the last 40+ years, and especially now, the tacit ‘boy reach over to kiss girl’ has gotten a bit less ‘correct’.

LadyMarissa's avatar

We’re about the same age & part of my comment was precipitated by Q’s I’ve seen teen girls asking & commenting on so I think it has changed more for the adults than 16 y/o girls. Anyway, it was just my opinion & I’m sure @mistakendreams will do whatever they feel comfortable doing when the time comes & my opinion will go straight out the window along with yours

She might surprise everybody & kiss @mistakendreams first.

chyna's avatar

Now I want to be a fly on the wall!

LadyMarissa's avatar

^^^ Naughty chyna…their first kiss should be PRIVATE!!!

mistakendreams's avatar

I invited her over to dinner and she met my parents and we went out back to talk I kissed her and she left thanks for all the advise everyone I think she enjoyed it!!

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