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What to do if you know your girl is cheating on you?

Asked by TysonEdwards (126points) July 28th, 2007 from iPhone

i have been seeing someone for the past 9 months. When we started off, I told her that if for any reason she wanted to be with someone else on top of me, then so be it. I just wanted to know that they existed and who they were.

It doesnt bother me that she sees someone else as I am really not a jealous person... the problem is that she has been telling me that she has been seeing a female friend of hers when that same friend says that they hadn't spoken in a few weeks. Then, the friend said that she knee that my girlfriend was hanging out with another guy for the AST few weeks.

Also, I was friends with the other friend well before the two of us started dating.

So, at a bare minimum, she is lying to me, and that is the only thing that I told her that I would not stand for.

What should I do?

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mirza's avatar

personally i wouldnt want to be in a dishonest relationship
I think your other friend might be right that your girlfriends is cheating on you
unless you are ok with ur gf dating another man, i would break up with her

sndfreQ's avatar

DTB (Dump That Byotch)

sjg102379's avatar

Talk to her. Then you can decide if you want to break up with her, based on the new information that you get.

bob's avatar

sjg has good advice. Ask her directly whether she's been seeing this other person. Have a conversation.

TysonEdwards's avatar

The answer was, "yes, yes I am. Are you happy now knowing the truth?"

The moral of the story is that she has been openly betraying me for the past month.

Because if it, she left; for which I am unbelievably glad. I mean if she can't follow my simple rule of just telling the truth, even when I tell her it is okay to do whatever the hell she feels like, then good riddence!

glial's avatar

Good move, and sorry to hear that. At least you got the truth. Move on. I have been there, you don't have honesty, you don't have anything.

sndfreQ's avatar

What an I said before DTB and good luck.

kbrain2929's avatar

"See ya baby!"

punkrockworld's avatar

Break it off, confront her, dump her.

emmy23's avatar

uhhh its quite obvious
break up with her
c ya
wouldnt wanna be ya
i hate cheaters with a passion
there not worth the time or the heartache

CMaz's avatar

She will do it to you for the rest of your relationship. Run away. Dump her.

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