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How do you know if he’s the submissive type in bed? [NSFW]

Asked by bubblylioness (4points) January 9th, 2019

Ok so there is this guy I really want to have sex with and I don’t know if he’s a dominant one or a submissive one in bed. How do you know which one they are before sleeping with them?

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SavoirFaire's avatar

Ask him.

In general, it’s best to have the “so what are you into?” conversation with someone before having sex with them.

Unofficial_Member's avatar

All you have to do is ask, most men are honest about that. Sometimes it’s interesting to play BDSM with a submissive guy.

flutherother's avatar

Finding out is more exciting than knowing.

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longgone's avatar

There’s an app called “CardDecks” that’s designed to help you get to know your partner. It has some games and lots of questions. While most of them are not about sex at all, some are. And you might find that connecting emotionally and mentally makes the physical aspects more rewarding in general.

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