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JackAdams's avatar

You're dating this really great person, and after s/he has known you for awhile, s/he invites you to accompany him/her to a nudist resort. What's your reaction, and why?

Asked by JackAdams (6497points) August 23rd, 2008

The American Association for Nude Recreation has a website here:

Would you accept or reject the invitation to visit a nudist camp, park, resort or housing complex?

This person you’re dating is someone whom you would like to get to know a lot better, in all other respects.

August 23, 2008, 4:23 AM EDT

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16 Answers

wilhel1812's avatar

oposit sex or same?

JackAdams's avatar

Your answer; your choice.

August 23, 2008, 4:37 AM EDT

wildflower's avatar

Depends on the person’s motivation:
If it’s their twisted way to get to see me naked, then the answer is no.
If this person a member and the invite is a way of including me in what they do, then I would accept and go.

JackAdams's avatar

What if your interpretation of their motivation is in error?

August 23, 2008, 4:43 AM EDT

wildflower's avatar

Then the person must either have lied or not been very clear when I asked…

JackAdams's avatar

Or you made an error in interpretation/judgment.

Unless you are incapable of error.

August 23, 2008, 4:59 AM EDT

wildflower's avatar

The way I see it:
He invites me to nudist camp -> I ask how come -> he explains himself -> I process/digest his explanation. If I interpret it wrong, he wasn’t entirely clear.

Randy's avatar

I’m game. Apparently, from what you’ve said, I’m into her so I’m down for a new experiance. Plus, I’ll get to see her naked. Haha.

JackAdams's avatar

Agreed. LOL

But typically, an invitation to a nudist resort, park or camp is extended long after the couple has reached the I-have-seen-you-naked stage of the relationship, so it is usually never used as a ploy to get the other person naked.

August 23, 2008, 5:32 AM EDT

Randy's avatar

I don’t even know this girls name. How would I have seen her naked already? =D

JackAdams's avatar

Why would anyone invite a girl to a nudist resort, whose name he did not know?

August 23, 2008, 5:40 AM EDT

Randy's avatar

You didn’t give me her name. Plus you said she invited me. Lol

JackAdams's avatar

The original question starts out with “You’re dating,” so it is assumed that you know who the other person is.

August 23, 2008, 5:59 AM EDT

sndfreQ's avatar

I think the conversation is a good idea, but if her values are in question, you may want to consider “wading in the shallow end of the pool” first. Invite her to spend the day naked in the privacy of her home (alone), then perhaps at your place for the day (just the two of you), then maybe invite one of your nudist friends over for a get together. I would try to build trust and confidence that way; it is likely that the otherwise “bombarding” invite might be a bit much to digest to be considered honestly.

wrestlemaniac's avatar

I’d say yes…don’t ask why.

wilhel1812's avatar

Female, yes
Male, no

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