Looking for a specific movie?

The movie is about a woman who’s abusive husband dies or is in a coma and a war soldier who died in the war years ago takes over his body and everything is good with them. There’s romance and the woman trying to help the soldier/her husband understand her time instead of how things were back in the day then it starts getting to the end where her abusive husband tendencies and aggravation starts coming back and the ending scene is of the woman’s house and it goes to the window where the husband is yelling silently and that is like the end of the movie ..idk how to describe the movie well because its been so long but it was a great movie and wanted to show my friend the movie but I can’t for the life of me remember the name of it?

Someone from another site said Sommersby but that isn’t the movie and the movie I am talking about was made in the 2000’s i just don’t know what year.