Do you agree that we should visit the graves of the deceased people not on their anniversaries but on their birthdays?

To honor their lives, not their deaths. I personally don’t agree, because it’s easy to honor people in their life, what we must do is grieve in their moments of death, because people who live a life full of pain, pain, pain, want a peaceful death, even if it’s oblivion, and also because this world (animals, plants, etc., not including humans, sorry, because there are defeatists too) cares about the dead.