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Will medicine always keep blood sugar down?

Asked by Laura8888 (264points) August 30th, 2020

I’m concerned about my husband because he is a Type 2 diabetic and eats sweets every day. He says he can do this because the med he takes, Metformin, keeps his sugar down. It’s usually 6.3 every time he gets his a1c tested and his doctor said this is good to stay below 7. A neighbor of mine is also Type 2 and said she feels Type 1 is much more serious and that Type 2 is “exaggerated” all for money. She doesn’t bother to check her sugar every day and neither does my husband. They don’t feel it’s necessary and say they feel fine. They only get it checked every 3 months from their doctor. My neighbor said she will not waste money on a monitor because it’s all about money and that she soaks her feet at least once a week. Diabetics are not suppose to soak their feet but she laughed and said her foot doctor told her it was fine. I read the only reason they shouldn’t soak their feet is because the water may be too hot and they wouldn’t know it if they have numb feet from diabetes and could get burns. Then why not just test the water first with your hand? My husband also laughs about having to see a doctor about sores on his feet. He said “I have two eyes in my head and can see if there are any sores and I have none”. Well he’s right. I checked his feet everywhere and there are no sores so why waste time seeing a foot doctor? My neighbor said she is convinced that Type 2 diabetes is exaggerated and that her medicine always keeps her sugar down and that she will continue to enjoy sweets. My husband feels the same. I guess some people can just take the meds they need and they can still eat sugar? I know diabetics can have sweets sometimes, but my husband and neighbor have them every day. They’ve been seeing a doctor for years and their blood sugar is down enough according to their doctors. So for all you guys who are diabetic, what has been your experience? Does medicine for diabetics work that well for Type 2 people? So well that you can have sugar every day? Thanks for your opinions.

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gondwanalon's avatar

This is the problem with a lot of people. They want a doctor to give them pill or an operation to make them healthy. Yet in reality none of those can. They don’t want to take responsibility for their health. They know what to do but refuse. Why because it’s hard. It’s hard to get the regular and vigorous physical exercise. It’s hard to eat healthy food and decrease the fasts, sweets and salt. It’s hard to lay off the alcohol, tobacco and other recreational drugs. This is why most people in the USA make it to old age in a world of hurt being obese, diabetic and other diseases. Then they present to a doctor and expect the doctor to make them healthy.

Of course there are many people that do all the right things and get cancer, diseases and die young. Life is not fare.

Good health to you and your family.

SEKA's avatar

My mom was a type 2 diabetic and she cut out all sugar. Then she got sick and had to stay in a rehab facility for awhile. They brought her a dessert with every meal. I scheduled a meeting with the HBIC to discuss why they were giving a diabetic sweets. She called in the diatician who explained that the medical doctors had come to the conclusion that diabetics can have sugar and it’s their carb intake that affects their blood sugar level and that the meal my mom was receiving was carb balanced and she should be eating her sweets and enjoying them. I left feeling as though I had just had smoke blown up my ass

When I got home, I emailed a close cousin who is the head pharmacist at a prominent hospital to ask about what I had been told. He checked with the hospitals lead dietician and she said that counting carbs was the approved method especially when feeding mass meals because there is no need to specialize each and every plate. It was deemed safer to count carbs than to individualize every meal. So, maybe your hubs is lucky that you’re feeding him carb safe meals without realizing it

I also have several friends who eat more sugar than I do and they seem to be just fine. As the medical field has progressed, so has our knowledge about diabetes. It seems that sugar wasn’t the beast that we were taught growing up. Nobody knew what a carb was back then

Since I don’t have a blood sugar problem,I might be wrong; but, I think your hub’s thought process is faulty. The meds do control his normally high sugar level. At the same time, the meds have no way of knowing how much sugar he has consumed. Yet I can’t argue with his success up to now. I still might suggest that you stay up to date on how to treat a diabertic who is having an abnormal spike in their blood sugar level so you can hopefully treat him until the paraedics arrive

janbb's avatar

I think I would ignore what my neighbor says which sounds frankly a little nutty to me and let her do things her way. If it were me and my husband wanted the sweets I would ask him to check his sugar daily in order to reassure you. Let the numbers tell.

Laura8888's avatar

Thanks for your response. How interesting. I knew carb intake had to be watched but didn’t know it was more important than eating sweets. My husband says he would know if his sugar went up because he read on Google that he would get very thirsty and urinate more. He thinks as long as he’s not doing that then his sugar is okay. I guess he could be right because for two years now his a1c is good every time he gets it tested which is every 3 months. He also eats healthy too. But every night he will have cake or pie with milk before bed. I don’t buy these things, he does.

filmfann's avatar

1) Your neighbor is a dangerous nut job.
2) Your husband’s A1C is good, not great. Kudos to him for keeping it at a reasonable level without regular testing, but he is taking a risk.
3) Type 1 is much more dangerous than type 2, but that doesn’t mean type 2 isn’t bad.

My wife and I both have type 2. My wife’s sister had type 1, and she died from insulin shock when she was in her 30’s.
I take 1000mg of Metformin twice a day. My wife takes 500mg once a day. We both test every morning. We are mindful of carbs, but occasionally have something sweet.
A few years ago, I got an infection that nearly killed me. Seriously. I spent a week in the hospital before surgery. My A1C was at 9.7, and my blood sugar was over 300. Infections feed on high blood sugar, so it is vital to correctly control it.
I say Correctly because of my sister-in-law. She thought she could double or triple her insulin shots, then indulge in massive amounts of ice cream.
Regarding soaking your feet, it can be very therapeutic, but you must be careful not to burn your feet.

Jeruba's avatar

We have some very knowledgeable people here, but Fluther really isn’t your best resource for medical advice. Do some research on reputable medical sites.

Also remember that paragraph breaks (end a line, skip a line) greatly aid readability, especially for older eyes and maybe even eyes compromised a little bit by diabetes.

Tropical_Willie's avatar

I’ve been to three funerals in the last four years of brothers or sisters of friends that did not try to control diabetes, all were on dialysis and had kidney and heart problem in the end.

Had another friend that came to a civic organization meeting one evening said she did feel well and didn’t want to drive ER; we called her husband, he took her to ER, her blood sugar was 700. She was lucky to be alive. She lost 125 pounds and now has to check her blood sugar once a day and is on oral meds (assume it is Metformin).

KNOWITALL's avatar

No. Every diabetic I know or have known had specific situations but all seemed to crave sugar. One died from consuming too many alcoholic sugary adult beverages on his honeymoon.

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