[NSFW] If it's not BDSM, what else could it be?

I know BDSM is a collective name for sexual practices. I also know that there are BDSM relationships where partners don’t have sex. But is BDSM if I feel glad to playing with power, while I still not experience neither sexual enjoy or sexual arousal or sexually or erotic reaction or sexually aroused nor sexual pleasure? It’s more like when you’re having a good time, like going out to your favorite playground as a kid and there’s nothing erotic about it. What is this? Do you think I can find a partner to fulfill these my sexually neutral desires? Is there a problem with me?: that these don’t make me sexually aroused, or something as I wrote.