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Do I understand the consequences of my actions?

Asked by O3f (23points) April 27th, 2022

As a person with Autism Spectrum Disorder, I am afraid that I could commit petty sexual crime without mens rea, because I don’t understand some body languages very well, specifically body languages that are supposed to be simple to understand, and I don’t understand mixed messages very well, even though it’s obvious.

I get scared that I can’t agree or disagree if I am being inappropriate, even when my friends say that I am a good friend to them.

I know that studies say that people with Autism Spectrum Disorder are more likely to be victims than being perpetrators, but the problem is crime is a very broad term, and you need social skills to follow specific laws. Lacking social skills can highten the risk for petty criminal behavior, specifically related to invading boundaries.

I sometimes become violent and very stressed when I am in a completely different environment, and at the moment, I don’t feel safe, but to others, I am seen as a criminal. It’s embarrassing!

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Your concern shows you have enough self-insight and awareness of others that you could control your behavior.

But it will take professional help and long term therapy, possibly including medications. No one on this site (including me) is a trained psychologist, and none of us is qualified to give you the counseling and support you need. However, there are resources you and your family can use to find help :

CDC Overview of Autism/Spectrum Disorder
https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/treatment.html

Specialist & Resource List
https://www.autismspeaks.org/resource-guide

Have someone close to you help you decide what you should do next.

Good luck.

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Thank you!

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