Women who are divorced or widowed: is it easier for you to make decisions now?
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February 22nd, 2023
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Now that you no longer have a spouse, do you feel freer and more confident in your ability to make fairly big decisions? Or, is it harder for you now, feeling the whole burden of making decisions? No change?
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No change. My ex didn’t want to grow up and make decisions, so I made all the decisions anyway.
@Dutchess_III But you are married now even though you have been divorced. I think the OP means women who are single now. She can clarify.
To answer the question, I would say in general it’s easier for me now but it’s been an evolving process over the last decade since I’ve been on my own. I’ve always deliberated a lot before making decisions and my Ex is more decisive so I might have gotten railroaded, or leaned on him more when we were married. Now, I like being able to make my own decisions and feel much stronger but there are times when I miss having someone to hash things out with. I have a great group of friends though that I can share with at times.
Still no no change @janbb. I make the decisions, then and now.
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