How should i post my questions in a better way?

recently, many of my posts have come off as sexist. i do not intend for them to be sexist, but obviously, they can be interpreted in more than one way.

maybe its a freudean slip, or maybe im just too inexperienced to understand what some people like to hear and what they dont want to hear.

either way, im sorry about the way my questions are being delivered, but i really want them to be answered, because they are serious questions that i need to know the answers to. isnt that what fluther is all about?

i bet, if you met me outside of the internet, you would understand that im not a cruel, selfish, sexist, as my posts have portrayed me.

once again, im sorry

any suggestions on how i can express my thoughts in a non offensive way would be appreciated.