Is it important for you and you significant other to have many things in common? Is your wife (or husband) actually your best friend who enjoys the same things as you?

I have been dating the same girl off and on for 3 and a half years now and we really don’t have too much in common.

We both love playing games and a few other things but i’ve found myself bored hanging out with her because recently she has just always wanted to watch (in my opinion) crappy reality tv shows. She doesn’t like doing things outside much and we don’t really enjoy the same tv and we used to like the same music but now she makes fun of me whenever i put on music i enjoy so we don’t really even like the same music anymore either.

is this going to be a major issue?? she keeps talking about getting married and i’m nervous that we don’t have enough in common.