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bigjonny87's avatar

How do I last longer in the bedroom?

Asked by bigjonny87 (2points) December 11th, 2008 from iPhone
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jessturtle23's avatar

My boyfriend says he thinks about shark fishing.

laureth's avatar

They make condoms with a kind of numbing medicine in them for just this purpose. I don’t know if they work, but an ex-boyfriend swears by them.

Also, practice on consciously holding back. This is not an immediate shift, but a long-term solution. Mind over matter, and all that.

dorn's avatar

Practice… and by that I mean do a little personal training. After that consider this.

Most people freak out and are taken by what is happening. Practice being there. Focus on what you are doing to your partner. If you are not use to being touched then you need to work on getting over that because it will over excite every time. And we are know what happens when that happens. :)

KatawaGrey's avatar

Work on your partner before he/she works on you. It’s fun for your partner, fun for you, and you can take your time depending on when you want to finish up.

PupnTaco's avatar

Kegel exercises?

cdwccrn's avatar

Last longer at what?

binary's avatar

Err. Lots of foreplay and, if you find yourself close during, think about dead kittens or something.

wundayatta's avatar

I start trying to do complex multiplication problems in my head. But it’s funny, I keep getting distracted, and I don’t think I’ve ever solved one of those problems. Sigh.

Knotmyday's avatar

Think about golf.

PupnTaco's avatar

But not ball washers.

Knotmyday's avatar

doh. hand -> face.

Elumas's avatar

Turn off your alarm.

judochop's avatar

try pulling at the balls a little. Not gently either, a quick tug usually springs me back to where I started from. (uh, thats a little embarrassing).

I’m gonna go run and hide my face now.

Ort's avatar

Slow down.

shilolo's avatar

Think about judochop tugging on his balls… :-)

clairedete's avatar

is that what a cock ring’s for?

KatawaGrey's avatar

@claire: generally, yes. It’s for men who have trouble maintaining a full erection. However, they also make vibrating ones that are just fun for everybody!

madcapper's avatar

get drunk and you won’t feel a thing…
or just stop sucking and make it last!

judochop's avatar

ewwwww dont think about that….I should have worded it differently. There are things you can find in the KamaSutra that will help. I have a hang up where I feel like a jealous lover if my wife does not get to make the happy face too. I have tried many things and thats what works. Just be discrete, don’t go tugging like a monkey in the zoo.

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shilolo's avatar

@judochop I love this quote “don’t go tugging like a monkey in the zoo.” Laugh out loud funny. Now, the real question. Don’t zoo monkeys deserve some privacy?

tb1570's avatar

male kegels.

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