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missjena's avatar

If a man has anal sex with women does that mean he's secretly gay?

Asked by missjena (918points) December 14th, 2008 from iPhone
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girlofscience's avatar

No. Liking a girl’s butt does not equal liking a guy’s butt. Duh.

PupnTaco's avatar

Pitching or catching?

Either way, no.

eambos's avatar

What the hell?

kevbo's avatar

It might mean he’s secretly bored.

SuperMouse's avatar

No, not even the slightest bit.

eambos's avatar

It’s still sex with a woman, is it not?

jrpowell's avatar

I just had sex with a empty Snapple bottle… What does that make me?

tyrantxseries's avatar

I guess it would depend on how you view the person male/female that makes you gay or not, not where you stick your penis in…

@girlofscience what is the difference between a girls butt and a guys butt???

El_Cadejo's avatar

Seriously!? Is there something wrong with surprise buttsecks now?

PupnTaco's avatar

@tyrantx: girl’s butts are juicier

poofandmook's avatar

okay… where’s the hidden camera?

AstroChuck's avatar

No. It just means he’s Greek.

SuperMouse's avatar

@AstroChuck, you have officially confirmed for me that you are a genius. A Super Genius even (in the tradition of Wile E. Coyote).

girlofscience's avatar

I’ve heard this claim before, and I think it’s insulting to gay people to propose that they have a fetish for butts rather than a sexual attraction to men. Anal sex just happens to be the practical way to engage in intercourse for two men, but it doesn’t imply an ass fetish.

augustlan's avatar

If a girl likes anal sex with a guy, does that make her a gay guy?

tinyfaery's avatar

LOL augustlan

Lightlyseared's avatar

It might mean the guy is going out with a girl who thinks anal sex doesn’t count and that she’s still a virgin.

laureth's avatar

If we take out the particular sex act, we could rephrase the question, “If a man has sex with women does that mean he’s secretly gay?”

Sounds kinda unlikely, eh?

El_Cadejo's avatar

I guess blowjobs make you gay too right? I mean gay guys do that to each other after all. -_ -

augustlan's avatar

Just out of curiosity, what prompted you to ask this question missjena?

wundayatta's avatar

I don’t people have a sexual preference because of the tightness of various holes. They have a sexual preference because that’s who they are.

Similarly, I don’t think people like an individual because of the tightness of his or her hole. People like other individuals because of their personalities.

People are not holes; ass or otherwise.

loser's avatar

Did I really read that?

wundayatta's avatar

@loser: no, but I bet you wish you had! ;-)

tyrantxseries's avatar

What if your girlfriend gives you anal? does that make you gay?
(your girlfriend is a girl)

eambos's avatar

How would that work?

augustlan's avatar

Toys and fingers, Eambos. Toys and fingers count!

augustlan's avatar

And isn’t that ridiculous!

Lightlyseared's avatar

land of the free.

wundayatta's avatar

They’re just a bunch of pervs in those states, looking for an excuse to peep… uh stakeout suspects.

tinyvamp's avatar

no, not at all

Mizuki's avatar

johnpowell—a moderator?

MacBean's avatar

Awww, Eambos is so cute, not knowing about pegging. C’mere, dude, let me pinch your innocent little cheeks!

El_Cadejo's avatar

@macbean LOL!

jessturtle23's avatar

I think that would mean most men are gay if they are gay just because they like a little back door action. I think guys will stick it almost anywhere including snapple bottles.

cookieman's avatar

Guy I went to college with used to heat up a cantaloupe in the microwave, carve out a hole and insert (repeatedly).

Does that make him a fruit, missjena?

El_Cadejo's avatar

this question is asinine :P

jessturtle23's avatar

@cprevite- I was actually going to mention the melon thing in my post but erased it because I thought maybe someone had lied to me.

missjena's avatar

the reason behind the question is because my boss was married and had children and hes gay so once he got divorced i asked him why he said cuz he was gay. he also mentioned he should have known he was since he al;ways wanted anal

missjena's avatar

also because i am dating a guy who has had anal sex in the past (not with me i dont do that) and someone was joking with him and called him gay and he got REALLY offended so i started to worry

jessturtle23's avatar

Well, if that’s the case then I have dated nothing but gay guys.

SuperMouse's avatar

@cprevite, EWWW!!!

cookieman's avatar

@SuperMouse: Yeah, that was pretty much our reaction when he told us. There was also discussion of a power sander.

I wonder if jessturtle23 knows the same guy or if it’s more common (to assault a melon) than we think.

SuperMouse's avatar

@cprevite – He told you? Holy moly! Doing something like that is one thing, but sharing it is quite another indeed!

wundayatta's avatar

“For children, a woman. For love, a camel. For pleasure, a melon.”

An old Arab proverb, or so I’ve been told.

cookieman's avatar

@SuperMouse: He shared a bit too much. He did clarify that, with regard to the power sander, there was no sandpaper attached to it. Thank heavans for small favors

@daloon: You’re pulling my leg. I’m going to send that along to him. Awesome.

Mizuki's avatar

The whole melon thing get’s messy if one wishes to marry the melon. I take this casavva melon for better or worst, mealy or fruit flies…

tb1570's avatar

if a woman’s let’s her bf go down on her, does that mean she’s secretly a lesbian?

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