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Any advice on what to tell your teen when they break up with their girlfriend?

Asked by rossi_bear (753points) December 18th, 2008

My son has recently broke up with his girlfriend. They are both 16 and he is feeling down in the dumps. It was for the best because she was controlling him and playing mind games. any advice that I can give him to help him get over the way he is feeling?

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GAMBIT's avatar

The teenage years can be a very hard time for youths and parents. If I had a son I would try to convince him that it wasn’t the end of the world and he will meet someone who is right for him. I would also share with him about my very first relationships and that they always didn’t work out they way I wanted. Also I would acknowledge that yes it feels terrible and yes it hurts and it is normal to feel the way he does. To end I would reinforce my sons interest if he likes sports, video games, music or reading I would get him more engrossed in those activities while the healing process begins.

steelmarket's avatar

I told my son about a couple of times that I got dumped when I was in high school, and we ended up laughing over it. I probably just got lucky.

rossi_bear's avatar

thank you gambit and steelmarket!!

GAMBIT's avatar

@ rossi bear – Your welcome.

rossi_bear's avatar

I cheated and gave him an early christmas present, a video game that he really wanted and that has seemed to keep his mind busy for today.

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