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windex's avatar

What do you think of this comment she made?

Asked by windex (2932points) December 25th, 2008

Texting each other…Merry Christmas blabla…
...
Me: blabla
Her: I’m sick blabla
Me: I hope you get better. Would love to take you out for soup anyday.
Her: Thank you. Have a good day.
...

If she ignored my soup comment, does it mean she is not interested :*( ?

I don’t want to “give up” so soon, since I REALLY like her but I don’t want to keep bugging her if she’s not interested.
...should I just ask her if she is ..lol does that sound like a good plan ? : (
I think my soup comment could be taken both way ”...hey I like you” or ”...hey lets hang out as friends”
It took me almost an hour to come up with that comment, so it would not be awkward/inappropriate.

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*blabla=just chitchating
The Bold part is the comment I’m talking about btw

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13 Answers

DrasticDreamer's avatar

Well, since you said “any day” she may have just taken it as a nice comment. I say go for it and ask her out. Sometimes you just have to be that clear, otherwise she won’t know you’re interested.

laureth's avatar

To me, it sounded like an end to the conversation, nothing more. If she’s sick, she might be quite tired and not very up for going out.

lefteh's avatar

Rule number one of courting and relationships: don’t overanalyze.

simone54's avatar

She probably doesn’t like you.

simone54's avatar

No I’m joking.

But seriously, you’d be better if you were just cool about it. You’d save your self a lot of stress. Plus it doesn’t help making girl like you when over think shit. Trust me I’ve been there. Of course it’s easier said then done….

asmonet's avatar

Trust me, not one girl in the world likes someone who analyzes every single thing they say. It’s too much pressure. I have to deal with this guy who does the same thing to me. Makes me want to slap him when he does it.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

Yes, yes, don’t overanalyze. Most people would not think about it that much when texting (texting especially because on the level of communication, texting is pretty ground level). It was probably just a conversation ender, it is Xmas and she is sick, so I wouldnt worry too much. If you asked “would you like to go out on Saturday for soup?” and she said “thank you, have a nice day,” then I’d be worried just a little. The vague suggestion doesn’t always lead to a telling answer.

judochop's avatar

She’s sick. Give her some space. I know when I’m sick my phone just annoys me. Take her some soup and leave.

windex's avatar

I wish I could HUG you all

THANK YOU!

now about that guy who used two commas instead of one, what could he be trying to say?

j/k I’ll try not to think too much

TitsMcGhee's avatar

Definitely don’t stress like I said…. I used to think way too much about that stuff and it’s actually gotten me in more messed up situations than it’s helped, now that I think about it…

I’d definitely hug you too :)

cdwccrn's avatar

Give her spa ce. She told you she was sick.

AlfredaPrufrock's avatar

If she’s sick, you should be offering to bring her soup to help her feel better.

charliecompany34's avatar

some people do not realize they are being “short” and to the point, especially when texting. our thumbs move faster than our thoughts and we just push the send button. try a phone call and actually talk to her.

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