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Have you ever talked about the specifics of sex to your spouse?

Asked by wundayatta (58722points) February 11th, 2009

Today, in therapy, we had to do that. Yuck! Double Yuck! Triple yuck!!! We both grew up in uptight Northeastern families. It was excruciating to be talking about the specifics in front of someone else. We don’t even do it with each other, much less in front of anyone else.

Have you talked about this with your spouse? Was it easier for you? Harder? Why is it like this for you? Are there other people you can get down and dirty with? Who? Why?

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