What should i do, and how?
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February 15th, 2009
So i met this girl a while back and we were together for like a month and it ended with her yelling at me because of me not taking her seriously (she wants to be a pro gamer). I kinda regret saying all that stuff, but now here the thing she moved to PA…im in NJ dont really think i should make the trip there. She blocked me from everything (AIM,Myspace,Facebook,etc etc etc) how do i get in contact with her besides calling her because me being the dumbass i am, deleted her number in a fit of rage….is she even worth it…i mean to apologize…
btw shes BEAUTIFUL, and funny. she just has big dreams which i like but sometimes can be annoying.
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She doesn’t want you to contact her.
Take the hint.
And pro-gamers can make a lot of money. Take this as a lesson learned to not judge others for their choices in life and move on.
To put it simply, you fucked up.
Yeah, she’ll never forget all that stuff you said/did. Great relationships very rarely start this way. Just learn from this and move on to something better.
Whose fault was the yelling? Did you say something bad? Sounds like she doesn’t want to hear from you. What the hell is a pro gamer? (pardon my ignorance) video games?
As little as we can tell from a post someone puts on fluther trying try describe something as complex as a personal relationship between two people, I do think sometimes we can make a (semi-) educated guess. Here, mine would be that you two, clearly, right now, are not right for each other.
In life we:
1. Experience.
Then, hopefully,
2. Learn
3. Grow
4. Move on.
You’ve got number 1 all taken care of…..
@asmonet
I wish I had “the goods” to go MLG. But I’m totally, totally left-handed, so southpaw really gives me a bad handicap :(
oh, and @jamzzy
Let it go man, sorry :/
Sounds like it’s over as far as she is concerned. If she ever wants to contact you, she probably knows how. Meanwhile, you can think about not yelling and figuring out how to take a person seriously (i.e. respecting her) next time. Could be a valuable life lesson, if you can learn it.
@asmonet Your first answer wins in the bluntness category, especially with it being a cloudy Sunday morning – like a cup of coffee with a double of rye in it.
@TaoSan Why such a sad panda all the time? sigh this sigh that…
@TaoSan: I wish I could compete in StarCraft tournaments, but no such luck. :’(
@Jampsoon: Thank you, darling. I find that blunt and honest communication for romantic advice is best. You don’t need any more beating around the bush than you’ve already gotten. Clear signals all the way.
@asmonet
Wow, StarCraft! That’s pretty old-school! (Pertaining to mechanics, and in a good way!)
I’m a HALO3 man myself, however, I do prefer team-objective matches, as the pure slayer games are kind of dull, not much strategic thinking needed really. Being a lefty I’m too handicapped for slayer anyways :/
Actually, when it comes to Blizzard I always favored Diablo…
FAIL!
Warcraft/Starcraft for the WIN.
My roommate has a serious Starcraft addiction… He plays the game more than I honestly thought possible. He plays the most bizarre user created maps. I don’t get it. I liked Starcraft when I was 12, it was fun for a few years, the map maker was a good time too. I didn’t have the opportunity to play it online back then, but still…
Total Annihilation holds a special place in my heart. And I’ve just started playing Supreme Commander which is a pretty excellent game.
guys guess what…...incredibly long story that i dont feel like sharing because it makes me sound like a UBER stalker….i found her and left her a message on her phone…she currently wants to be friends but she still has strong feelings for me? she also has a boyfriend FUCK….now what
Sound like all the harsh responses were wrong, I’m glad I took the middle ground.
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