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How do I show my husband how special he is to me?

Asked by jonsblond (43667points) February 17th, 2009 from iPhone

Thanks for the inspiration Meathooks24. Men seem easier to please than women. But are they? How do I really show my husband that he means the world to me?

We have an anniversary coming up, what can I do?

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kevbo's avatar

Ego stroke.

Food make.

Quiet be.

jonsblond's avatar

@kevbo lol Quiet be is right, isn’t it!

Dog's avatar

Always be happy to see him when he comes home. Take the time to look in his eyes and smile.

Show your physical attraction to him like you did when
dating- take the extra step to
make the bedroom even more interesting.

Good food

A little quiet time

eponymoushipster's avatar

there are so many answers that could get me in trouble.

jonsblond's avatar

@eponymoushipster That’s why kevbo played it safe with ego.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@jonsblond i was thinking something else, but i couldn’t find the Family Guy clip i wanted online.

seekingwolf's avatar

A way to a man’s heart is through his stomach!

Why not make a romantic dinner with his favourites? Doesn’t have to be fancy…if he loves sour cream and onion chips, serve them as an appetizer.

tb1570's avatar

I can’t tell you how to make your husband happy b/c I am not your husband. My advice is this: listen to him. Listen to every little word he says, and listen for the meaning in between his words. If you learn to listen carefully & correctly, he’ll tell you everything you want to know about how to make him happy, even if he never once comes out & says so directly. Next time you think he’s just spouting off some stupid guy talk, just take a breath, slow down and listen. Somewhere beneath all that mumbo-jumbo is a message, something he’s trying to share with you or wishes you’d understand.

zephyr826's avatar

He knows that you care about him, but if you’re looking for something out of the ordinary, i would suggest have pin-up photos taken. Your husband thinks that you are the sexiest woman on the planet and it’s time for you to think that as well. So find a photographer that you trust, or a really good friend with a nice camera, get a bottle of wine, and get your bombshell on. But don’t take yourself too seriously – it’s more fun when you’re goofy. Trust me, he’ll love it, and probably you will too.

elijah's avatar

I think just posting this question (knowing he will read it) shows him that you think he is special.

jonsblond's avatar

@elijahsuicide True, I’ll wish him an early happy anniversary and tell him to look at fluther. :)

wundayatta's avatar

What was that character in Doonesbury—you know the football player—BJ something? No, I think it was BD. Whatever. Anyway, I rather liked it when he was in the cartoon.

jonsblond's avatar

@daloon First good laugh of the day, thanks!

Blondesjon's avatar

If none of the rest of you will say it I will.

Oral sex, fellatio, blow jobs.

she’s right…men are simple

Sakata's avatar

You should offer to play the ol’ rusty trombone for him. I just said OFFER. That’s all.

jonsblond's avatar

@eponymoushipster ouch!

@Sakata You think I can just get by with an offer? You don’t know blondesjon!

oh wait a minute, you do! :p

eponymoushipster's avatar

@jonsblond no seriously. no matter however neat he wants the house, you’ve got to clean it. let him get completely anal.

jonsblond's avatar

@eponymoushipster So you are saying that I need to rub down everything to keep it squeaky clean? I get it now!

eponymoushipster's avatar

@jonsblond yeah, we’ll go with that.

@Blondesjon i tried dude.

veneziana's avatar

Cook him his favorite meal. Make sure you add candles and music. Sit down and enjoy the meal together. Wine would be a nice touch. As the
evening progresses escort him to your bedroom and enjoy the sex. Make him some love coupons and let him choose what he wants.
Keep one thing in mind….sex,sex and more sex.
Enjoy!

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