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LouisianaGirl's avatar

What should Rihanna choose?

Asked by LouisianaGirl (1159points) February 21st, 2009

Should she give Chris Brown a second chance, after all everyone makes mistakes, or dump him he`s not worth it.

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eambos's avatar

I don’t care who abused who, if someone has abused you, you need to GET OUT RIGHT NOW!

That’s my advice to Rihanna.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

I know she is a beautiful woman it wouldnt take her long to find a man who will treat her well. But then I feel bad for CB because he grew up around a man abusing him and his mother so that is what he turned to. But then again you shouldnt hit a woman, especially one you love. But its all up ti Ri-Ri I hope she makes the best decision and I am glad that her family is helping her in her time of need.

mrswho's avatar

I have no pity for an abusive man and I think that she’s an idiot if she doesn’t dump him. No one should put up with that, I don’t care how very “in love” they are.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

very true she is beautiful and I bet many men will love her unconditionally and never harm her. I hope she makes the right decision.

chyna's avatar

Remember Whitney Houston’s abuse by Bobby Brown? It went on for years. I think if someone is in an abusive relationship, the quicker they get out of it, the more likely they won’t keep falling into the abuse trap with that person.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

It took Tina Turner 14 years to leave her abusive husband. Rihanna aint married to CB and it is just starting so she should get out while she can.

Allie's avatar

Getting out of an abusive relationship is easier said than done in a lot of cases. If that’s what she chooses to do she’s definitely going to need a strong support system of friends and family who won’t let her go back to him. On top of all this, she’s going to have to deal with the media and all kinds of people who think they have a right to know everything that went on. I doubt there is any way that she’s going to be able to do this on her own.
Legally, she’s going to face obstacles too. If there weren’t any witnesses (which it sounds like there weren’t) it’s going to be his word against hers. Tough.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

i`m sure all of her fans are supporting her right now. I know I am.

Adina1968's avatar

She should dump him and make sure he goes to the slammer for a while so he has some time to think about what he did! He needs to learn how to respect women. He also needs some anger management classes!

aprilsimnel's avatar

Kick. Curb. Now.

90s_kid's avatar

Get Chris Brown out of her life.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

Fa reelz. If a guy hits a woman especially one that he claims he loves you need to suck up but dont expect her to take you back.

90s_kid's avatar

Hits as in Wack, or hits as in Flirt? Haha kidding.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

As in wack did u see those bruises she has? Bless her heart.

90s_kid's avatar

Yes. Poor Girl!
I feel so bad because she is a good girl (Even though her album is “Good Girl Gone Bad”), she isn’t a Britney Spears (Who at times, deserves it).

chyna's avatar

@90s_kid No one EVER deserves to be hit. EVER.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

I just wish I could talk to Rihanna u know because the press is jumping all over it. He hurt you leave him
O hey Chyna cuz up?

cak's avatar

@90s_kidWho at times, deserves it??? Not even funny. No one ever deserves to be abused.

90s_kid's avatar

Well, not as bad as What Rihanna got.

cak's avatar

She needs to stay far away from him. Very far away.

chyna's avatar

@90s_kid “not as bad as what Rihanna got”.
You have no business even commenting on something so horrendous as abuse. You have no idea what it is like or even what it is about.

90s_kid's avatar

Or do I?
;)
Kidding!
Get over it, Chyna.

chyna's avatar

@90s_kid No you get over it. You have no idea what you are talking about.

90s_kid's avatar

@chyna
persuasive aren’t we?

LouisianaGirl's avatar

fight the force woman. men think that we are weak and they can just control us but ppl know i dont put up with their crap so they dont even start with me. All woman around the world should join forces and fight back!!!!!

cak's avatar

@90s_kid – There are some things that just are never going to be funny. This is one of them.

90s_kid's avatar

Was I laughing?

LouisianaGirl's avatar

Abuse towards woman or abuse towards anyone weather you a man woman young old physically or mentally abused dont take it fite back i no i wud dont put up wit it Ri-Ri!!!

LouisianaGirl's avatar

I used to b a CB fan and some of my friends were completely in love with him n huge fans n now if u mention his name their sorta like blah so yea this really affected his career and definalty lost fans

90s_kid's avatar

Haha, Rihanna punching Chris Brown in the face! I want to see that! And it isn’t sarcasm!

LouisianaGirl's avatar

I`d like them to call truce but he better not expect her to want him back after what he did to her.

90s_kid's avatar

FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!

LouisianaGirl's avatar

Very violent are we….dont worry i get that way too sum times and people tell me i need to cool it but some things are just meant to be dun and said but others not.

90s_kid's avatar

Yeah I am usually not the one to fight actually. I would rather have a Pokèmon Duel. KIDDING
I just wanted to add pizazz….you know what I mean, right?
no, you don’t? ooh…:s

LouisianaGirl's avatar

haha but there are a lot of fites at my school like everyday and my friends are always in them so I have to break them up because im friends with almost everybody in my grade n ppl no i have anger managment problems so they listen to me when i tell them something but yea im used to violence.

LouisianaGirl's avatar

she should take her heart and RUN!!!!!!

Nicole18's avatar

i think she should dumb CB sorry ass.. she doesn’t need to be abused

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