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Bi-sexual virginity?

Asked by tb1570 (3123points) March 1st, 2009

Please, please, PLEASE, do not take this as deliberately ignorant or intentionally hurtful—it’s an honest question:

To all my fellow flutherites out there who happen to be bi-sexual, did you (do you) view yourself has having two different, seperate “virginities?” If you had had heterosexual intercourse but not homosexual intercourse (or vice-versa), would you still view yourself as a partial virgin? Or what if you are a lesbian, have always known you were a lesbian, but for some reason had sex with a man, but had not yet sex with a woman; do you still view yourself as a “virgin?”

Again, I have no intention to specifically hurt, objectify or devalue anyone or their sexuality, and if I have inadvertantly hurt anyone with this question, it really is unintentional. So please accept my pre-emptive apologies, blame it on my ignorance and please, enlighten me!! : ) I really am just very interested in human psychology & sexuality!

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