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BONZO's avatar

Besides the obvious, what are some physical changes to a woman's body after she has children (like 4 years later)

Asked by BONZO (387points) March 5th, 2009

see the MILF question

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skfinkel's avatar

From what I’ve seen around, not much. It depends on how she takes care of herself—if she hasn’t gained weight (past six months), no changes.

SuperMouse's avatar

I had my last child six years ago and there are no lingering physical changes. I have however had to face the fact that I am over 40 now and downing a box of Thin Mints by myself is going to have major repercussions.

casheroo's avatar

I don’t get why you are asking this, after the MILF question.
Are you wondering if her body will be different than a woman who hasn’t given birth??

I gave birth 20 months ago, I am now thinner than I was pre-baby, but my body is much different. I have birthing hips too, which I love. I guess be prepared to possibly see some stretch marks. Some never go away. I have the clear kind on my thighs…only I can notice them usually, and it has to be in certain light. I think mine will eventually go away but I don’t really care.

BONZO's avatar

so everything goes back to its original size?

ubersiren's avatar

Shoe size goes up and stays up about a size. If she doesn’t lose the weight right away and work on keeping it off, there’ll be a permanent baby pooch/c-section fat shelf. Big babies can cause Lordosis (sway-back) in mom’s spine which can be difficult to correct. I’d say normally, with work, everything should resume its normal position. Except boob deflation. Dear god, my boobs are more like whoopie cushions these days.

casheroo's avatar

@ubersiren so weird, my feet shrunk! i’m a half a size smaller now. i’ve heard they usually get bigger and stay bigger.

@bonzo what are you asking about? “everything”?

BONZO's avatar

her vagina

SuperMouse's avatar

@Bonzo, come on man I was with you until that last post…. That right there is a trashy question.

gailcalled's avatar

BONZO; What do you mean by “the obvious”?

casheroo's avatar

lol gail, good question.

i’m not sure how to respond to you, bonzo. i doubt you’ll ever find out the answer to your question through experience though.

cak's avatar

@BONZO – seriously? (shaking head)

BONZO's avatar

@cak yes, seriously. how am i suppose to know these things? ive never had a kid.

BONZO's avatar

@SuperMouse trashy? i thought it was a legitimate question.

SuperMouse's avatar

@BONZO well yes trashy. Would it make a difference if this MILF’s nether regions were different than they were before she had kids? Since you don’t know what they were like prior to kids it shouldn’t matter much should it? Plus if she truly is a MILF to you that shouldn’t be a deal-breaker. A google search might be able to help answer this one for you.

bythebay's avatar

@BONZO: Another obvious change is that she has children; has probably matured in mind and body, and won’t want to wast her her time with immature children (other than her own). That leaves you out in the cold.

BONZO's avatar

@bythebay i dont waster anyones time and you have no idea what you are talking about, but thanks for the obvious fact about people maturing once they have children.

bythebay's avatar

Oh, ok. You did say you don’t have any children, right?

gailcalled's avatar

Corollary question; Are all teen-age boys doodie heads? Or is that silly? I wouldn’t want to waster anyone’s time either.

chyna's avatar

@BONZO Hope you measure up to her standards also.

AlfredaPrufrock's avatar

I believe I’ll sit on the sidelines for this one, ladies.

augustlan's avatar

@BONZO You seem to be a little… obsessed with this subject. You asked a very similar question a while back. It was worded quite crudely, and didn’t stay up for long, though. Why are you so worried about this?

Jack79's avatar

Depends on the woman, her lifestyle and eating habits. But I guess this is “the obvious”.
There are hormonal changes too, but they should be gone by the 4 years that you mention.

what’s a “MILF”?

augustlan's avatar

@Jack79 Mother I’d Like to Fuck. Lovely, isn’t it?

ubersiren's avatar

@casheroo : My size 9 is so jealous of you.

If the woman has had a c-section, her naughty bits are most likely still intact. I guess that’s what you’re really wondering about. And don’t forget about the floppy boobs. Mine are like nunchuks made of warm pizza dough.

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