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How do you know when a boy isn't a virgin anymore?

Asked by ShortStuff (65points) March 20th, 2009

I know girls get their cherry poped, but what happens to boys?How would you know?

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marinelife's avatar

You would not unless he told you.

ShortStuff's avatar

But if he did how can you tell if he was lying or something?

Jamspoon's avatar

His nose gets bigger?

sandystrachan's avatar

his penis bleeds ?
take him to a doctor maybe they can do a test

aviona's avatar

He tells you.

sandystrachan's avatar

would that really COME UP in the conversation girl to guy ” are you a virgin ”
why would it matter
does it matter if anyone is a virgin ? even girls !!!

marinelife's avatar

There is no way to tell if he is lying or not.

sandystrachan's avatar

he doesnt last 2 seconds
clutching at straws here to give answer

Darwin's avatar

He tests positive for an STD?

sandystrachan's avatar

you can be a virgin and have one of them tho cant you ?

scamp's avatar

If you don’t feel like you would get an honest answer, you might want to invest your time in a different boy. Honesty is very important when it comes to sexual history. Not only for peice of mind, but for your health as well.

SeventhSense's avatar

Well to be somewhat blunt. He’s pretty clear on the angle of entry from any position,. That only comes from experience

El_Cadejo's avatar

Uhhh there’s no way to tell if a boy or a girl is or isnt a virgin…..

chyna's avatar

@Darwin ! <shakes head, snickering>

Darwin's avatar

@sandystrachan – Only if you are Bill Clinton and depending on how you define “is.”

TitsMcGhee's avatar

He gets that swagga in his step…

But really, there is no definite way to tell if someone of either gender is a virgin or not. Not all girls have a ‘cherry’ popped,and some girls break their hymen much before ever engaging in intercourse. Add into the mix that there are alternative ways to lose virginity (same sex relations, for example) that do not involve vaginal intercourse, and you’ve got a confusing mess on your hands. Asking for honesty is probably the best way to go about it.

MrItty's avatar

There is no way to know. At all. Ever. Period.

There is no physical sign. There is no physiological difference between a male virgin and a male non-virgin. The act of having sex for the first time causes no change to made to a male’s anatomy. Therefore, the only way to know would be to ask – but there is nothing you can do to force him to tell the truth.

For what it’s worth, there is no way to know for sure if a woman is a virgin or not, either. It is possible for the hymen to be broken (ie, the “cherry” to be “popped”) without intercourse. It is possible for pregnancy to occur without penile entry into the vagina. Again, no way to tell, either gender.

If there’s some question in your mind as to whether your partner is being honest with you, YOU ARE NOT READY to engage in sex with this person.

tiffyandthewall's avatar

the same way you can tell if a girl isn’t a virgin anymore.
either you ask them or you don’t know.

Bluefreedom's avatar

If you ask a boy if he’s lost his virginity and he says yes, but you still disbelieve him, you could always ask him to take a polygraph test.

Knotmyday's avatar

He appears a bit more relaxed…seems to grin at nothing in particular…from time to time, a happy whistle…

chyna's avatar

@Knotmyday I have an image of Opie Taylor, whistling, going fishing… ewww.

eponymoushipster's avatar

he stops talking about sex constantly.

casheroo's avatar

his hymen is in his anus. you have to check it yourself, if you really want to know. lol

Darwin's avatar

@Bluefreedom – Actually, if he says yes and someone doesn’t believe him, then they should take him to bed and have sex with him. After that the unbeliever will know for sure that he isn’t one any longer.

Provided he is above the age of consent, of course.

Bluefreedom's avatar

@Darwin. Good point. Who the hell likes a lie detector test anyway? Bumping uglies is much better.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

@Bluefreedom: Much Lurve for the use of the phrase “bumping uglies!”

Bluefreedom's avatar

@TitsMcGhee. Thanks, my friend. =)

galileogirl's avatar

Of course you have to take his word for it. Guys don’t lie.<;P

Knotmyday's avatar

@chyna- Not Opie!!! Nooooo…besides, Aunt Bea would find out anyway. Aunt Bea’s no fool.

DrBill's avatar

There is a visual test you can do, with his cooperation. PM for details


His feet get large and he starts wearing shiny shoes. (wink!) :D

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