How can I be more comfortable around this guy?
Okay, so there is this guy I really like and I am going to see him tomorrow at church. I think he may be interested too but I get so nervous whenever I see him. He always comes up to me whenever he sees me to talk, and he gives me hugs, but I just get really nervous and I feel like I make things really awkward. How can I be more comfortable around him? What are some things to talk about with him? Please help! thanks. :)
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Be yourself when you talk to him, let him like you for you.
He already finds you very pretty otherwise he wouldn’t come up and talk to you so suck him in with your personalitly.
Talk about things he likes or things that you know both of you have in common. Smile and laugh alot. and you should be set :D
Welcome, miz.
I have nothing to say here. Sorry. See you on another q.
Just be yourself, he obviously likes you coz he wouldnt talk and hug you if he didnt!
Come acroos confident even if your not, confidence is very very sexy.
Let us know how it goes, good luck
xx
Zen if you have nothing to say than don’t say it. :)
Smile a lot. Laugh at his jokes, even if they aren’t funny. Touch him in a non-sexual way (especially at church!), you know, that special way that only girls can do. Compliment some random thing about him (his haircut, his shoes, his watch—all great conversation starters, btw). It takes confidence to do this, and it also instills confidence in him, which he will need to ask you out.
In short, flirt.
Ya know, the nervousness is just natural. You shouldnt fight it or be embarrassed by it or hate it. When I first started being around the guy I liked, hanging out and all, I would get these nervous chills and shakes D: My thighs would vibrate from being so nervous!!! My heart would beat so fast, I would sweat, I wouldnt be able to talk (choking on words, blank mind), and I felt like that all the time ): Eventually, I just asked him out and now weve going out for 2 years! Yay :)
So really, dont worry about the nervousness. Just let it be. Its a natural part of the process. Just smile, and make sure you dont be fake!
Since this question was asked in 2009, I sincerely hope you guys have made it together and you let go of your shyness.
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