What are deal breakers for you in a relationships besides the obvious?

by obvious I mean physical violence, hurting your pets or children (okay maybe for some these aren’t obvious turn-offs but that’s just unfortunate)

for me: HAVING to drink a LOT all the time even after knowing that it bothers me; breaking my trust in a big way; lying in a malicious way; it would also be a deal breaker if my partner all of a sudden converted to a religion and expected the same of me or my children; same goes for a change in political ideology or all of a sudden wanting to be in the military, for example…also, if they gave me any sort of ultimatums about HAVING to be exclusive in our relationship…I don’t DO ultimatums…