Does anyone else think that some of the fluther moderators can be a bit fascist or overbearing?

I’ve seen threads that were good fun between friends and I shut down because they “weren’t really asking fluthers opinion” (despite the fact they were and we were just joking around inside said thread)...And I just saw one on marijuana erased. Does anyone else find this overbearing and mildly infuriating that some of the mods here treat us like middle schoolers?

(Note to mods, I scoured the rules of fluther and this question does not in any way violate them)