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Why would a guy call to tell me he would be out of touch for awhile, when I haven't heard from him in a month?
Background: he and I have been friends for 10 years, always attracted to each other, I’m separated, we had a fling for while, I fell in love, he didn’t, treated me poorly, I forgave him and we decided to try to salvage the friendship. But…he hasn’t called me or made plans w/me for over a month—just ocassional text, email and IM. Nothing major (and point taken on my end). He goes away for the weekend to see a concert, comes back, texts me, and when I don’t reply, calls me. I don’t call back for about an hour. When I do, he tells me his mom’s husband died so he has to go home tomorrow then is flying to NC for a wedding so I won’t be getting any emails, IMs or texts from him for awhile. I told him that I understood, especially since he had already told me that he wouldn’t be able to IM me from work anymore. I already got the impression that he was slowly fizzing out our connection, so I’m VERY confused as to why he called me tonight to tell me he’d be out of touch for awhile, especially since I have not been trying to get in touch with him in any way whatsoever (b/c I got the impression that he’s not interested in making things right, or in me, for that matter). So why the phone call to tell me all this tonight? It was short, about 3 minutes tops.
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