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Dating protocol: What are the rules for dating two women at the same time?

Asked by norman (12points) December 28th, 2007

been introduced to another person.

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figbash's avatar

I guess it would depend on how far along into the “dating” you are, but just be honest with both of them about what they can expect from you.

kevbo's avatar

google “ethical slut”

cwilbur's avatar

Be honest about what you’re doing with all parties concerned. If the person you’re currently dating isn’t comfortable with you seeing another person, make a choice—either break up with her and date the new person, or don’t date the new person—and abide by it. If you’re doing something you’re not willing to be honest about with both of them, you probably shouldn’t be doing it.

extolsmith's avatar

Keep ‘em separated.

Amurph's avatar

Be honest from the beginning, and don’t give them info or details on your other dates unless they ask.

suejester's avatar

I also find it best to set expectations up front as conversation permits. I think both the women you are dating should know you are still keeping your options open. Who knows maybe they too are seeing other people.

richardhenry's avatar

You do not need to inform them of one another, this is considered to be stupid as unless you are dating a slut, you will lose both. However, you must “decide” between one or the other within a period of four weeks or until you have had sex in a bed and then slept there after, whichever comes first.

asruge's avatar

most guys that can handle dating two girls at once for more than a short while are scumbags, and scumbags don’t obey protocol.

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