How does one decide on a paradoxical situation?

For example: The issue of abortion, in my opinion, is a paradoxical situation. It is wrong to kill. It is also wrong to control somebody against their will. Further, rape and incest are also wrong. These awful acts result in questionable lives that would seem appropriate to extinguish. However, it is wrong to kill.

So the thought process it brought full-circle back to the beginning.

For the Fluther: Do you have a real answer to answering paradoxical question like abortion? Is there a right anwer? Can there be?

In my own opinion there is no way to solve such an issue. Feel free to make suggestions.