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What does it mean if a guy you regularly have intercourse with rarely orgasms?

Asked by mostlyclueless (701points) June 21st, 2009

He doesn’t have any problems getting it up and keeping it up, but orgasms occur maybe 20% of the time.

It’s a three-month old relationship, and he’s a normal, healthy guy in his 30s.

I’m reluctant to bring it up with him in case it’s something he’s insecure or sensitive about.

Is he just not attracted to me? Am I doing something wrong? What do you suppose is going on here?

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