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sandystrachan's avatar

He is creepy , but is he gay ?

Asked by sandystrachan (4407points) July 6th, 2009

I know of someone who pretends to be girls online , just so he can see guys wanking on camera . He says he is trying to catch pervs and paedos , yet he is the one who starts the sex talk .
He gets round the fact he is a guy by using camtasia and manycams to steal videos from sites like , these videos would be of girls doing things on cam , just so he can pretend to be the girl and watch guys of all ages . He traps them and he brings them on a wild goose chase even gets phone credits and other things from these people .

This is all he ever does it gets a little uncomfortable when he starts talking about such things , its pointless reporting to the websites cause he will just make new profiles .

If he sees someone online he will purposely go out his way to make a new profile , ” just so i can trap the sick paedo pervert”. < his words not mine .

So what would you do ?

( He only goes for guys and watches them over and over again , and is over joyed that he is getting guys to think he is a young girl and having them wank over her video.

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FiRE_MaN's avatar

wow thats really strange… what is he trying to do about it? after he catches them what does he intend on doing?

sandystrachan's avatar

The thing is he isn’t really catching anyone , cause he starts the sex talk .
He claims his plan is to shame them , yet as to this date he has never ” shamed ” any of them .
I think he is a guy that doesn’t really know what a paedo or pervert is .

I think he does it for his own amusement, that or he is a closet homosexual and this is his only way to let it out . And not make people think he is gay , this i am not sure of .

FiRE_MaN's avatar

oh well then yes it does seem like he is doing it for personal amusement. i would begin to believe that he might be gay.

FrankHebusSmith's avatar

Yes, he’s gay. From the sounds of it, quite the closet case. The guy has issues, like counseling needed issues.

sandystrachan's avatar

Shouldn’t such actions and behaviour be stopped tho , why is it everytime his profile gets reported nothing ever happens . And people worry about such things online yet it is happening on a daily basis , the guy is maybe in his 30’s and is pretending to be a girl so young guys 18— whatever plays and does things on webcam for him pretending to be a her .

lunabean's avatar

heh, this is a longshot but why don’t you call the guys from dateline who do the pedophile captures. even though what he’s doing is legal maybe they could help with an intervention.

cwilbur's avatar

I’m not sure he’s gay. He sounds quite screwed up in the head, though.

There are quite a few actual gay guys who enjoy pretending to be women so that they can get straight guys to strip off on webcam for them. I really don’t understand it, but hey, as long as the straight guys are over 18 they’re legally responsible for their own bad judgment.

syz's avatar

I don’t think that’s “gay”, I think it’s “disturbed”.

basp's avatar

I’m with syz on this one. Whether he is gay or not makes no difference…. But he definately sounds disturbed.

sandystrachan's avatar

@lunabean Them guys from dateline , do they still operate ?

Darwin's avatar

I would say he is both gay and disturbed. He needs to find a boyfriend and counseling.

tinyfaery's avatar

Why does it even matter if he’s gay? If guys are wanking on camera and feel okay about letting random strangers view it, then whether it’s a man or a woman doesn’t matter. If the wankers are saying they are over 18, what is this guy doing wrong?

Tink's avatar

hehe sorry I just had to laugh “wanking”

Judi's avatar

I think HE is the perv!

sandystrachan's avatar

Ok is sexuality isn’t really on the cards , but he really likes watching the guys he is like a kid in a sweet shop.

It would be good for him to get a taste of his own medicine, or something….

Likeradar's avatar

I’m curious about how you found this out. Did he just one day tell you “I’m not gay, but I sure like to pretend I’m a woman and see men wank! I’ll show them!”

Is there really anyone anymore who believes that hot young lady who is begging to see your junk for free is really a hot young lady?

Judi's avatar

I would much rather have a friend who is gay than a friend like this. It is really sad that the “big shame” is weather or not he’s gay! Isn’t this the 21st Century?

Likeradar's avatar

Also, I’m unclear about if your friend is pretending to be a young girl, or an underage girl?

NathanESP's avatar

**Shudder** creep

lunabean's avatar

@sandystrachan i’m not sure, maybe they do, but just not on tv anymore. if not, i guess you can always get some of his other friends and family involved for a fun-filled intervention :D

sandystrachan's avatar

I know of his online antics cause he brags to me about them , he pretends to be a young girl aged over 18 ( this age i cannot be certain , as he may even hide that from me) .
Him maybe being gay is not an issue , its what and how he goes about getting his gollies that is the creepy part .

And his reasoning behind it i.e the part where he says its ok m cause he is catching perverts and paedos , when really he is being the creepy perverted man .

@NathanESP i SHUDDER everytime he tells me his new conquests .

Darwin's avatar

Well, he doesn’t know what a paedo is (if he is pretending to be over 18) and I’m afraid that as far as perverts go, he needs to remember that “it takes one to know one.”

Likeradar's avatar

If he’s not pretending to be an underage girl, I don’t see much issue with his behavior other than his need to tell you about it.

PandoraBoxx's avatar

Surely you can find better people to hang out with?

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