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How would you recover from this situation?

Asked by christine215 (3173points) September 16th, 2009

The ‘voices in my head’ are letting me share this one:

I was in the bathroom stall at my daughter’s day care yesterday afternoon… I had so many things whirling around in my head, planning dinner, picking up the mail for a relative that’s away for a while, packing her clothes for her Dad’s tomorrow… etc…

so while I thought I was “talking” to myself in my head, turns out, I was talking OUT LOUD to myself, just as I was walking out of the stall, one of the teachers looks around me and says, OH< I thought you had your daughter in there with you…
I was mortified so my answer was some incomprehensible mumblign as I brushed past her.
I’m pretty sure she now thinks I’m completely crazy… how do you recover from something so embarrassing?

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dpworkin's avatar

I would ignore it completely. It’s absolutely normative behavior; you’re not crazy, your experience isn’t rare, and she may think what she will.

I know you can’t make yourself feel “unembarrassed” but I wish you could – you never had to feel embarrassed in the first place.

gailcalled's avatar

Personally, I wouldn’t give it another thought. The teacher probably hasn’t either. I am sure she has other things on her mind (like the children she cares for) than brooding whether you are “completely crazy” or not.

And if that is the most embarrassing thing that happens to you, consider yourself lucky.

However, if you are serious about voices in your head, talk to a trained person.

Ria777's avatar

smile and say you sometimes talk to yourself. make a joke about it. no need to feel ashamed.

Disc2021's avatar

You just simply say “I just wanted to apologize about the other day in the bathroom. I was thinking out loud and my mind was in a whirl”.

As @Ria777 said, just make a joke out of it – laugh at it.

Darwin's avatar

Take deep breath, hold your head high, and just keep on going. If this other person thinks you are crazy, that is their problem. If they start bruiting it about, then turn it into a joke – “I always talk to myself, but I just hate it when I lose the argument.”

However, if you really do hear voices other than your own in your head you might want to talk to a counselor. My son has that problem for real and has had to be hospitalized for it.

Judi's avatar

I have a million “lifes most embarrasing moments.” Thank goodness the self preservation gene in my brain files most if them in the deepest darkest cellars of my memory.

mrentropy's avatar

These days the solution is simple: I was talking on the phone with my miniature Bluetooth headset.

Resonantscythe's avatar

Talking to yourself is A lot more usual than people act like it is. There’s really nothing to be embarrassed about. Push it out of your mind. If you come across each other and she brings it up, just tell the truth: you had a long day ahead of you.

SpatzieLover's avatar

If you’re able to talk to yourself to sort out life’s conundrums, you are living and breathing…HOORAY!

Just put your chin up and be grateful for the day.

BTW, You are a normal mom with lots going on

CMaz's avatar

Get over it. No big deal. We all do it from time to time. :-)

christine215's avatar

for all of those who were concerned that I really do have voices… no, I don’t.

oftentimes I have an ‘internal dialogue’ running in my head, especially when I’m planning out things I have to do. I used to be a forgetful person, till I found that if I ‘talk to myself’ in my brain and go over things that need to be done, I don’t forget so much

dpworkin's avatar

Yeah, right, sure.

Judi's avatar

@christine215 , come on over to this question and I’ll make your little story sound like a case of the hick-ups.
(By the way, You inspired the question.)

ShanEnri's avatar

Actually I do this all the time! I simply tell people I make a very interesting conversational companion!

ABoyNamedBoobs03's avatar

catch her in an elevator and pretend to be a very curious squirrel…. she already thinks you’re a lunatic you might as well have fun with it.

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