What is your, or a good sexplay safeword?
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October 20th, 2009
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‘Momma’ turned out to be a poor choice for me.
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supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
My puppy’s safeword is “cotton”, we found it was recognizable even through mouth restraint ;) – LB
Note: “Puppy” does not mean my DOG, it’s what I call my submissive ;)
Niagara Falls, unless your partner has ever been in vaudeville.
Something unlikely to come up during sexplay—there was an SNL skit with a woman’s safeword as “popcorn” (I think). That’s a good example, I think, because it’s very unlikely to come up during whatever.
Or the name of somebody, like a relative. It would work especially well if it was, say, your grandma’s name, but you only call her “Grandma”. (Not trying to be kinky, but an example.)
Nothing too hard to remember or say, for sure.
Saying ’‘HARDER!’’ but with a slightly different tone.
My girlfriend and I use Banana.
We thought we were the only ones. Hahaha. Until I read the first reply.
Banana is funny. It provides a laugh if things get to serious.
ROTFLMFHO at using Momma as a safe word. That’s almost as bad as “Herpes”
Safe words are for amateurs and posers.
Running through some of these questions too fast, I thought I was reading this question, but instead read one on Andrew hitting 10K.
But it was really amusing.
mattbrowne posted: Herzlichen Glückwunsch!
fluggaenkdechioebolsen (Euro Trip)
@brinibear did you say fluggaenkdechioebolsen?..... Hans! Grubel!
“Don’t go there!”
See ya…Gary/wtf
I don’t like that. Stop it.
@Capt_Bloth thats soooo funny I read the question and instantly thought bannana I don’t know why, never had to think about a safe sex word before, it just popped into my head strange!!
Blondesjon gave the BEST ANSWER in my opinion
’‘KNOCK IT THE FUCK OFF!!!’’
but…
i say ’‘parachute!’’
I wonder if everyone understands why a safe word is needed.
Some people want to be able to say “stop it. Oh. Ouch. That hurts” etc etc, while the other person keeps on going because ignoring the wishes of the other person is part of the turn-on. If you want to play that way, you have to have a word that is entirely outside the realm of sex play, so if you really are being hurt or really are in danger, you can tell your partner to stop and they’ll know it’s serious, and not part of the play.
Of course, another way to play safe is to do it over the phone. Then anything goes and no one gets hurt! ‘Course—it’s not quite the same. Although it is surprising how much it can be like the real thing.
“Please, don’t, stop.” not to be confused with “Please don’t stop!”
@benjaminlevi Effective! Geez, now I may not be able to have sex for a while!
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