Guys only question: what makes a woman sexy (to you)?

Anyone who can appreciate Lou Reed/Thom Yorke is good in my book
Or Rick Astley

I think you should edit the question to include lesbians as well. They like women too, you know.

I think every guy has a certain look he can accept or likes, For me I don’t care about height, I just like how they look, so if she is tall and attractive or short and attractive I’m in. The big deciding factor is really attitude and confidence. I like girls with a lot of confidence and isn’t always second guessing her looks or what she says or does. And of course intelligence, She doesn’t have to be a genius, but at least have an opinion. I hate it when I ask someone what they think about something that’s been in the news and all I get back is a “oh I don’t like the news”.

@LKidKyle1985 I liked your answer. It seems you’ve been on fluther for a while – from your amassed lurve, but I’ve never seen you before.

Dealbreaker = clingyness.

Give me a woman who wants nothing to do with me- now, that’s hot!

<lets wine gut hang out>

When she kicks my ass at Call of Duty.

I guess I’m the opposite of @nzigler, I like a girl who can’t get enough of me.

I like a woman who can read me, knows when I want to be alone, knows when I want company, doesn’t fill the silence with empty-headed rambling BS, likes the simple things in life, and isn’t afraid to get dirty. A woman who doesn’t think she owns me, but will defend me if she thinks I need defending. A woman that respects me, and has the courage to disagree with me.

The dealbreaker: a female that spends any time at all in the bathroom painting expensive cancer-causing ingredients on her face.

What I look for is someone with a good personality that I can joke around with and can also have intelligent conversation with. One thing that’s very important is someone I can trust and I don’t have to worry where they are or what they’re doing. Fortunately I already I have this person ;). I love you clair!

@Psychedelic_Zebra When you find her, please clone her and send me one. You have my address. ;-)

@j Ahhhh. Good thing this is a guys only question or there would be a whole chorus of those ahhhs and no-one could get any serious writing done. ;-)—

@NewZen I’ve already found her, I’ve been married to her for 20 years. She goes by Evelyns_Other_Zebra on here if you want to talk to her.

@NewZen you spoke too soon.

@Ivan – man, I’ve got a couple of ex-girlfriends you gotta meet.

@nzigler Heh, thanks, but I’m taken.

Curves in all the right places and a very similar personality to myself!

Umm…I’m answering whether you like it or not.

I like all kinds of women. It’s more of a aura, the way they carry themselves, their unique style and presence. I do tend to have a thing for androgynous females that tend toward the masculine side: short hair, male mannerisms, butch dress, etc. But I also like jean and tee-shirt girls who dress up with lip gloss and sexy tops, and even the occasional femme. I prefer women with dark hair and an olive or redder complexion. Red heads with white skin are hot too. I’m not a big fan of blonds, but my wife is definitely fair. Go figure.

I only focused on the physical because otherwise the attributes that make me find a woman sexy are the same that make me find a man sexy.

Intelligence, common sense, street smarts, and a sense of the world is a must.

An appreciation of food, travel, art and music is also great.
we need something to talk about

Most important, however, is someone who is compassionate and loving.
no cold fish please

As for looks: I prefer cute over beautiful and curves are fine by me. Pretty eyes, nice skin. Beyond that, I’m not picky. I’ve found all sorts of women attractive.

Also: MUST be able to bake a mean batch of cookies.

I like a smart cookie/nerdy girl with a witty sense of humor. Ladies who bring the funny, I’m a sucker for.

A woman with an individual sense of style—that’s an attractive quality.

Her heart. If she has a big, beautiful heart—nice.

Good relationship with her family? Hey, that’s important to me. Very important.

Physically, I’m all over the place with that (blondes, redheads, brunettes). Honestly, though, attractive ladies with dark hair, hazel eyes, make me weak in the knees. Exotic, beautiful women? Gah. It’s all about the eyes for me. Sexy eyes do me in. And, sexually, if you’re a tiger in the sack? Meow. Mama like. Mama like a lot.

@cprevite You’re a regular cookie monster :P

Sheesh. Why does the other question get more responses than this one?
This feels like the playground all over again

@jsammons: Yup. But it’s not a deal-breaker. I can bake my own cookies if need be.

That’s because we are men and we have better things to do than sit around on the computer
Like fixing houses and fighting bears

@PretentiousArtist Yeah! Like scratch our balls and watch football! :P….I don’t like football :(

If there are any girls lurking here, pretending to be “composing” then GET OUT!

I said this is a guy’s only question and I must insist on privacy. I know, I know, you can’t help it – you must see what the guys think – but all you have to do is ask us – we’ll tell you – and then don’t try to interpret and and analyse everything backwards and forwards, like, well, a woman would – just take it as it is.

If Mr. Smith here says I like big women, she has to be smart and funny – I guarantee you – that’s what he really thinks.

Right, boys?

A girl with a good sense of humor.
confidence
nerd, girls who play video games are hot.
open minded, being close minded is a huge turn off
don’t take this the wrong way, but being super-religious isn’t very attractive to me, probably because i’m an atheist.
long hair is sexy
intelligence
good taste in music, well, similar to my tastes in music
i dont want a girl who dresses up all the time, jeans and a tshirt is sexy in my opinion
supportive
a big heart.
a girl who can put up with me, and let me be obsessed with them, because i will be.
someone dependable
most important- trustworthy
im getting off topic, im more of listing qualities in a girl id date, but whatever.

@NewZen Yep, the honest ones anyways.

@NewZen yes, we mean what we say! well most of us…

Someone who thinks I’m funny and is easy to just hang out with.

I’m assuming hermaphrodites can post? yes, yes?

@pinkparaluies you didn’t strike me as a hermaphrodite, but okay.

@JONESGH Thats the point, isn’t it? Tricky little shits us hermaphrodites are.

@JONESGH Careful. That’s how they git ya.

@Grisaille yeah, i was fooled.
@pinkparaluies well, what makes a woman sexy to you then? now im curious

How about lesbians? Are they allowed in here?

I’m lookin’ for a dime. Thats top of the line. Cute face, small waist, with a big behind.

@pinkparaluies lawl.

LOL4RL!

Yes, yes, lesbos and hermies are allowed (said lovingly and respectfully) – let’s just take the finger out of the dam of this thread, shall we.

All people are welcome here in this thread, and should be allowed to do and say as they please anywhere – online, and IRL.

<== gay girl, but, ahead and answered, anyway.

@NewZen Yeah I’ve been around for about a year ½, was gone most of the summer. And now I kind of randomly pop in and out of fluther, I know I’ve seen Mr. Jean-Luc Picard around though.