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Do you find this person..attractive?

Asked by icehky06 (891points) November 25th, 2009

So basically this kid likes me, hes a nice kid and we like alot of the same things plus he looks like harry potter. He does a crap load of drugs and is obviously messed up a little from them but he has been sober for 3 months. Today was spirit day and he painted his whole face which was a turn off and was wearing some creepy tight under armor shirt. Hes very racist and has a confederate flag in his room, he use to have a marijuana bush or tree or plant or whatever it is in his room. I mean hes a nice kid and is nice to my friends…I just dont know anymore..I mean you just can’t find any good boy that isn’t on something anymore.

So far from what you read do you find them attractive? Or should I just stop talking to them in general?

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28 Answers

sjmc1989's avatar

I am guessing you don’t since you have to ask. If there isn’t attraction there don’t try to create it just because you feel there isn’t anyone else.

PapaLeo's avatar

I kept waiting for you to get to the “nice” part.

sebastian_von_tulu's avatar

If he was a she I’d stay well away.
Racism is just not cool.

NewZen's avatar

You guys have summed it up nicely already. Smart jellies with lotsa I E.Q..

Fyrius's avatar

@sebastian_von_tulu
^ What the Elder God here said.

rangerr's avatar

Nothing is wrong with being spirited on spirit day.
I think you need to stay away from “kids”.

Jude's avatar

Does he sound attractive to you?

you can do a hellavalot better

LC_Beta's avatar

This person sounds like he is immature and I don’t think you should waste your time with him.

amnorvend's avatar

Finding the person you really want to be with is tough and takes time. Ultimately, you shouldn’t settle. You’ll just end up regretting it. Ultimately, you just have to be patient.

efritz's avatar

He sounds interesting. For a science experiment, not a boyfriend.

Don’t like someone just because they like you. That is usually a mistake.

augustlan's avatar

I’m with @PapaLeo on this… what exactly makes this person “nice”? I sure don’t see it in your description of him.

MissAusten's avatar

He sounds real nice, other than being racist and creepy… run away, far away

Adagio's avatar

Do you find this person..attractive? No, ABSOLUTELY no

Shegrin's avatar

A racist pothead? That usually only happens in Texas. Is that where you are?

Fernspider's avatar

Um what!?

No, not attractive. Doesn’t sound like you think he is either. From reading your question, I get the impression that you have very little respect for him (well warrented) and are not attracted to his lifestyle or life outlook.

I doubt very much that anyone finds him attractive by your portrayal. Give him a miss!

Nice Harry Potters will come along I’m sure.

ubersiren's avatar

Just because he’s nice to you and your friends doesn’t mean he is nice. Racist people generally aren’t nice. And if he’s that much of a druggy, then I’d steer clear altogether. If he smokes pot once in a while, I don’t see a problem with that, but being messed up from lots of drug use will be hard to deal with in a relationship.

To answer your question, no, I don’t find him attractive from your description. Cute as he may be outside, he doesn’t sound like someone I’d want to make time with. And it doesn’t sound like you really do either.

Supacase's avatar

Not in the least.

syz's avatar

Uh, no.

Judi's avatar

Racism is pretty butt ugly if you ask me.

augustlan's avatar

I’m curious… what inspired you to ask this question? You aren’t seriously considering dating this guy, are you?

sjmc1989's avatar

@Judi said it all I think! GA.

Darwin's avatar

“Hes very racist and has a confederate flag in his room, he use to have a marijuana bush or tree or plant or whatever it is in his room.”

Personally, I would not want to be in the same room alone with him, so no, I don’t find him attractive, and neither would my 17-yo daughter.

“I just dont know anymore..I mean you just can’t find any good boy that isn’t on something anymore.”

You are 15 and still in high school. You have at least 5 to 10 years to keep looking if you are a typical American, so I would quit hanging out with this guy. You do not want to be with him when a cop stops him and discovers he has weed on him.

As to finding someone who isn’t on something, you might try looking in special interest clubs. A lot of those folks are much more addicted to their hobbies than to chemicals. If you aren’t into nerds or geeks, then check out athletes, dancers, actors, or guys who build stuff.

rangerr's avatar

I can deal with the confederate flag yeah! south of the mason-dixon line!, but not growing pot in his room.
That’s trouble.

Darwin's avatar

Our family doesn’t like Confederate flags. The end of slavery is still way too close.

rangerr's avatar

I’m a country girl. I think that’s why.

amnorvend's avatar

@ubersiren is right. Trying to pick up a date is like going to a job interview. You put on your best clothes, be really nice, and sell yourself. Then, when you’re in, you get to be lazy and talk back to your boss/date.

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