What are some non-material gifts you can give someone?

Those are good. Also coming to mind are company, activities, trips, stories, information, recommendations for things they might like, and recommendations of them to others, love, affection, friendship, music, insights, work, protection, opportunities, recipes, opinions, introductions, parties, celebrations, ceremonies & invitations, absolution, forgiveness, admiration, planning, ideas, names… confidence (allowing them to confide)... shortcuts…

your time. nothing better or worth more or in such short supply.

Five Non-Material Gifts to Give This Holiday Season
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/83404/five_nonmaterial_gifts_to_give_this.html

Read to them. (Backrubs are good, too.)

try to make them something, anyone can make something look nice if they paint on a canvas, or maybe you could draw or write something for this person. cheap, and effective.

All respects, needleinthehay, but for many of us, and especially those of us who actually pay attention to paintings, receiving a hand-painted canvas
by someone who really doesn’t paint is very painful. What to do with it
if you don’t like it? The horror, the horror.
Make something that a) you’re pretty good at; and/or b) they can eat or otherwise consume. Written stuff is great because they can enjoy it and then put it away in the file.

Your friendship

blowjobs are always a good gift

LOL Blowjobs… lmao… nice

A good non mat. Gift is…
a good $&@&&€¥

Nathan gave me a treasure hunt. My parents did them for me when I was a little kid, but quit when I solved each thing instantly. I chatted about how much I had loved it, and how much I adore that kind of puzzle, and how I miss it, etc, with nathan. I then go on a vacation and when I come back he’s set up this incredibly difficult treasurehunt.

It ended in my basement, and he had been hovering hte whole time, but had disappeared… I found him at the end of it, with open arms. That’s all I could want.

He doesn’t have a lot of money and so he has this incredible understanding of what a real gift is.
I almost start crying just thinking about the whole thing, it was that perfect and wonderful. If I didn’t know that I loved him before, that cinched it.

Something I’ve always enjoyed giving…a coupon book. You can pick up some fancy paper and design it however you like (fancy or not). It does, of course, require tangible materials…but the coupons would be redeemed for non-tangible things: back rubs, make-out sessions (provided you are gifting this coupon book to your spouse/significant other), a car washing session, 1x lawn mowing, candlelight dinner for two, other misc physical pleasures (as mentioned…haha), just about anything you can think of that the person would enjoy. Add in a ONE TIME “You Win This Arguement” coupon. Guys love that…even though they normally think they’ve won anyway. :) And, I put expiration dates on some of them since I included multiples of a few items.

Massage, very good idea.