Send to a Friend

keithold's avatar

How should you handle an elderly relative who won't take good advice about his health?

Asked by keithold (735points) December 12th, 2009

My elderly father fell on Friday night and hasn’t been able to walk since. He has also vomited during two successive nights. He had people coming to his 80th birthday party and didn’t want to let them down.

My brothers and I urged him to call an ambulance or visit the nearest hospital. He insisted on being driven to the hospital nearest his home. He turned away an ambulance my brother called for him and is on his way to the hospital.

Using Fluther

or

Using Email

Separate multiple emails with commas.
We’ll only use these emails for this message.