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Dog is scared of people- can any behavior experts give me advice? (see details)

Asked by Likeradar (19583points) January 4th, 2010

The boy and I adopted a 2 year old spayed female lab/hound mix about 3 months ago. We know nothing about her background other than she was at the shelter for at least a month and was very, very skinny when we got her.

She was skittish and disinterested in us when we adopted her, but we’re suckers and she came home with us. Most things are 100% perfect. She’s super attached to me and the boy, and rarely goes more than 15 or so feet away, even off leash. She likes other dogs but doesn’t seem to know what to do with them, so one day a week she goes to doggie day care to learn how to be a dog. So that’s her background, and here’s the issue:

When we got her she was indifferent to strangers. Now, she’s flat out afraid of anyone who shows her any interest (aside from me and the boy). She’ll sniff people, but as soon as anyone turns toward to her, tries to give her a treat, tries to gently meet her, she bolts. This includes people she’s around a lot and who have never been aggressive, loud, or whatever in her presence.
So, if anyone out there is a dog behavior expert and can give me some advice on how to help my lil friend out with her fears, it would be very appreciated.

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Glow's avatar

I have a 2 year old schnauzer, we bought him a few months after he was born… and he is the EXACT same way. He is a fearful dog, and we kind of just accepted that, so long as he seems happy to us. He loves his family, he loves to play, when strangers come around, he sniffs and growls lowly, but never lets them get near. He has been this way since we got him, so we figured that this is just his personality trait, as I strongly believe dogs have personalities as human beings do. Based on my experience with him in the last 2 and a half years, there is little we can do to change this about him. Sometimes, when strangers give treats, it can really work. Also, another thing that works is that I telll strangers to kneel on the ground when they want to pet him, instead of tower over. Kneel on the ground, or even better, sit indian style, with a treat, and slap your lap gently. It is pretty much a slow process there. Most strangers don’t give up, but I do. :P Haha. One thing I hate is the fact that neighborhood dogs will get very aggresive with him, and he has been bit more than once! He never reacts aggresively, he only sits there and takes it, which saddens me. So I say, be careful around her and other dogs, make sure they don’t sense her fear and try to attack. Just be cautious. Just be there for her. If you are gentle, you can really help her improve.

Here is a website that might help!—-> http://www.fearfuldogs.com/index.html

AstroChuck's avatar

Dog is afraid of people? So what is she doing as a moderator then?

rooeytoo's avatar

I think I would try an obedience class with an experienced trainer. That is a good place to start, the socialization with other animals and humans would be good for her. Just make sure it is an experienced trainer.

And just keep doing what you are doing. Keep her on lead and in the midst of things when company is there. And dogs are like kids the more you ignore them, the more they want your attention. Tell your guests to just act as if she is not there, let her do it on her own.

Pandora's avatar

Shes probably sensing nervousness from you or the boy when other people are present. She may have been just naturally shy the first few times and that lead you to feel awkward and tense when company comes over and she may be reading it as fear. Be firm with her when people come over. You acting like the pack leader (as Ceasar would say) will make her feel more secure and with time she won’t feel the need to bolt because she feels you have everything under control. Also I notice with my dog he doesn’t like it when people put their hands in their pockets or wear hooded clothing. He has to be able to see all limbs and face or he feels insecure. Male voices can also intimidate dogs or loud high pitch voices. Shes young and may also feel skiddish around children because they can tend to be rough when trying to be affectionate. Children also move very suddenly and dogs don’t do well with anticipating if they are trying to hurt them. It took my dog several years to stop fearing kids. I had a friend whos little girl would pick him up (I have a maltese) and who would do like Elvira and the kitty. She just wanted to hold him and sqeeze him and he really didn’t like that. After she dropped him once he would never go near a child again for some years. He’ll play with one now but the moment they reach out to grab him he is gone under a bed till they leave.

filmfann's avatar

My sisters dog is this way. She found out the dog was abused as a puppy.

marinelife's avatar

The biggest problem that you have is your dog could start to show fear-based aggression toward people.

Here are the steps to go through to deal with fearful behavior:

“People

When a dog reacts fearfully to a man, people tend to jump to the conclusion that a man has abused the dog in the past. Possibly that is the case, but often it’s a problem of lack of early social experience with men. Men, women, children, people wearing big hats, people in Halloween costumes and a wide variety of other human presentations can spook dogs who have not experienced that “style” of person before.

Of course, if there has been actual abuse or something has happened to frighten the dog in conjunction with that type of human, the dog’s fears will go deeper. Either way, the treatment is basically the same. Don’t let people force themselves on a fearful dog. In spite of hurt feelings on the part of the offended human, this process needs to be taken just as slowly as when dealing with any other fear.

Working Principles

With a severe fear that causes the dog to suffer, you need to enlist the help of a veterinary behavior specialist who can prescribe both the behavior modification protocol to deal with the fear as well as any indicated medication. When the fear places people in danger because the dog reacts aggressively, that’s another case for in-person expert help.

Similarly, get help quickly with an extremely fearful puppy. The right intervention can do so much more for a puppy during early development than if you let this opportunity pass and the habit of fear to become stronger with time.

Whether working on your own or with the help of a specialist, the following principles are typically part of working through a dog’s fear:

1. Have a veterinarian examine the dog and perform any indicated tests to diagnose problems that could be causing pain, sickness or disability. Work with the veterinarian to treat the problem and ease the dog’s physical pain. Bring the dog back to the veterinarian regularly.

Don’t assume that a problem brought under control at one point will never need further treatment. Make any indicated changes in treatment to keep the dog comfortable.

This requires detective work! Dogs have a survival instinct to hide their pain, because an animal showing weakness in the wild gets killed. Look hard for possible physical problems, rather than expecting the dog to cry out in pain or otherwise “tell you.”

2. Assess the problem:
a. Do you know of an event that started the fear?
b. Is the thing the dog fears actually dangerous and/or likely to cause pain to the dog? How are you going to keep your dog safe?
c. Are people or other animals being placed in danger by the dog’s behavior and if so, how are you going to put a stop to that danger right now?
d. How can you protect the dog from experiencing this fear while you work through the behavior modification steps?
e. Is it necessary for the dog to cope with this situation, or could things reasonably be managed to simply keep the dog away from it from now on?
f. If you determine it’s better to protect your dog from this situation rather than trying to treat the fear, give the dog time to get used to your new plan. Chances are you’ll be surprised to see how much happier your dog becomes.

3. To treat the fear, plan the steps for conditioning your dog gradually to the feared thing. Plan how you are going to start at a DISTANCE from the feared thing, with it functioning at a low INTENSITY for periods of short DURATION. Plan how you will, over time, gradually reduce the distance, increase the intensity, and expose the dog to the feared thing for periods of longer duration. Plan how you will increase one variable at a time.

4. Determine what things this dog finds rewarding. For the greatest chance of success, you’ll want to use as many of them as possible. Incentives include: food treats the dog likes, food treats the dog goes crazy for, regular meals, retrieving, games with you the dog enjoys playing, special toys reserved for special times, “happy-timing” the dog with a jolly attitude (using excited voice and body language to convey to the dog that is a happy thing), privileges such as a walk or ride in the car, and anything else THIS dog likes.

If you can’t come up with anything your dog finds rewarding, developing these motivators is your first training goal! You may need the help of a behavior specialist or trainer. One option is to break the dog’s daily food into more, smaller meals. Some or even all of the food can be fed by hand, depending on what works best for your conditioning program.

5. Discontinue all exposure of the dog to the feared thing. Start your conditioning program at the distance, intensity and duration where your dog happily accepts rewards. Advance very slowly toward your goal of having the dog comfortable with the feared thing so that the dog will be able to function happily around it in the future. Be patient and take as long as needed to avoid pushing the dog too fast. If you trigger the dog’s fear during this process, that’s a big setback, so keep the progress slow enough to avoid that.

6. Reward your dog at times the dog is showing confidence. Avoid rewarding fearfulness. Certainly don’t punish the dog for acting fearful! Just give the rewards at the moments when you see in your dog the state of mind that is your goal. ”

Darwin's avatar

While several folks have given excellent advice, I like what @Glow suggests. That is, to have strangers (or at least “strangers” as far as your dog is concerned) sit on the ground before the dog comes into the space. Then let the dog share space with the seated person. If the dog seems to be relaxing, then have the seated person give the dog a treat. Do this again and again on different days with different “strangers.” If the dog makes progress, then try having the seated person be a kneeling person instead. Continue until your dog seems to accept strangers. This dog may never be totally friendly to everyone, but it may be able to tolerate other people to some degree.

Otherwise, I agree with @rooeytoo and @Marina.

Likeradar's avatar

Thanks for the tips, everyone. We’re going to talk about your suggestions and decide what to do with the little munchkin.

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