How to become popular and cool fast?

Hi, I am in the tenth grade. Many of you who read this know how important popularity is to a tenth grader. I have suffered from abuse from my mom my whole life and I have a few other mental disabilities. It is really hard to find friends to hang out with. I want to know if anybody has any suggestions to how I can be the kind of person everybody looks up to, the dude everybody wants to hang out with. I want to be the dude who has girls having crushes on him instead of me having all the crushes on the girls. I don’t want to be the one that the girls run away from every time you walk in the same room. If anyone who reads this understands where I am coming from I would appreciate your thoughts and advice.