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How long should I wait to experience a change in my husband's behavior?
A couple of weeks ago, Fluther was wonderfully helpful with this dilemma I had regarding my husband. Briefly, I need compliments, he doesn’t give them. We talked, he said he will work on it. I believe him.
The new question: How long do I wait to hear something before I say anything? It may not be an issue and I’m hopeful that it won’t be. I need and want to keep my expectations realistic and in check! Two weeks? A month? Two months? Six months? I don’t want to nag. I also don’t want to let this slide away and I end up upset again. Tired of that shtick. Right now I’m fine that he hasn’t said anything as there has really only been one possible opening for him to do so.
Any thoughts or opinions gratefully accepted. (I’m going to a job interview in a bit, so will be back for your comments later.)
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