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(NSFW) Ladies - How do you feel about this taste?

Asked by Sophief (6681points) March 3rd, 2010

Do you like to give oral sex straight after sex? How do you feel about tasting yourself when you do?

Why am I asking this, just one of those random thoughts that go through my head.

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sevenfourteen's avatar

never done it- don’t plan on trying.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I’d like to hear how ladies feel about kissing their man after he goes down on them as well.

Sophief's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe I don’t like kissing after he’s been down.

jbfletcherfan's avatar

You sure are caught up on sex questions, aren’t you??

Sophief's avatar

It doesn’t taste bad, a few licks and the taste of me is gone.

Sophief's avatar

@jbfletcherfan Seems to be!. I was going to ask a painting question, but changed my mind.

janbb's avatar

Removed by me – discretion is the better part of valor.

Facade's avatar

Fine by me as long I don’t have to taste him [gag]

shadling21's avatar

Ummm it’s okay. I’m not all for it, but in the heat of the moment, I’m surprisingly open-minded.

phoebusg's avatar

It is a good question. Most of my ex’s didn’t mind. To add some statistics.

TooBlue's avatar

6 “Great Questions” already. Is this some kind of inside joke?

CMaz's avatar

I expect it.
Before during and after.

janbb's avatar

@TooBlue Inside joke? Ha!

trailsillustrated's avatar

it’s fine- doesn’t taste like anything

Seek's avatar

I actually don’t enjoy oral sex. Neither giving nor receiving. Just don’t like anything about it.

~shrug~

shadling21's avatar

One thing I’m not open to trying, though, is oral sex after anal. If there’s one thing I’ve learned from Kevin Smith, it’s that you never go ATM.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

That blows even more.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@shadling21 I should clarify. The idea of asking someone to do that blows, not that you don’t like it. Its disgusting.

CMaz's avatar

“One thing I’m not open to trying, though, is oral sex after anal.”

ew

jbfletcherfan's avatar

Yes…a very obvious statement! Who in their right mind would do THAT!!??

shadling21's avatar

@jbfletcherfan There are websites for those who are into it. Those people may not be in their right mind, though…

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

There’s a video I think its something like two girls one cup, that I went to. Big mistake. Its worse than disgusting

jbfletcherfan's avatar

@shadling21 WHAT!!?? OMG! It’s very safe to say that NO, they’re not! Gag me!

BoBo1946's avatar

@ loll..Dibley, you better call your boyfriend quick!

CMaz's avatar

I prefer jelly.

Just_Justine's avatar

To me it’s just part of love making. It’s fine.

Justnice's avatar

It’s fine. I always kiss my boyfriend after he goes down. I like my taste and he likes it too!

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

No problems – I have no issues with anything coming out of my body or his, whatsoever.

Sophief's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Good for you. I was a little wary the first time but it was great.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Dibley With my current partner, it was never an issue – I have been with people though that were hesitant about it for whatever reason.

Sophief's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir I would never even go down on my previous partners, now, nothing is an issue.

BoBo1946's avatar

@Dibley was that subject usually bring out the harmones!

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

I always go down on her before intercourse. After coming from that, she goes crazy for having me inside her. If asked I would go down on her again but usually she can’t take any more stimulation after that.

She is wary of going oral on me after I have been inside her.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Dr_Lawrence You’re going down on her after you cum inside her? How many guys do that?

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe do you think guys would think tasting their semen is gross or gay, so to speak?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir No. I was just wondering the opposite of Dibley’s question. I do it all the time, especially if I come to soon for her.

Just_Justine's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe that is quite normal you know!

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Just_Justine Which one? The coming too soon or the going down?

Just_Justine's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe all of it, body fluids, swapping, tasting your own. Tasting them. Its a swirl of sex! and it’s sexy. If we can enjoy another’s fluids, why turn our nose at our own?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Just_Justine I like it alot. If I had been single all these years, I know I’d had to pick up something.

Violet's avatar

No, for 2 reasons. I don’t like the taste the condoms leaves. and seamen makes me super sick.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Violet You’ll get a kick out of this. Go over to Justine’s question about the TV in the living room and go to the end.

phil196662's avatar

When the wife and I are really randy we usually have a glass of wine to sip from so the taste is usually wine but we swap all the time! never have this freely with previous partners…

phillis's avatar

I don’t care for the taste, mine or hubby’s. Not caring for the taste is not the same as rejecting him, though. I made sure knows that.

Violet's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe so Just Justine mixed up her questions, and thought someone was saying they were 1800 lbs?

deni's avatar

Its not as odd as i used to imagine it would be. it’s not unpleasant, i don’t think. it’s sort of just strange to think that you’re tasting your own juices though. but overall i dont mind it. it sure beats semen.

shadling21's avatar

@Violet Seamen make me sick too. They don’t shower much and spit a lot. ;)

Trance24's avatar

Well Im ok with the taste of a woman in the first place so it doesn’t bother me that I am tasting myself, but he has never gone down on me again after intercourse. I asked once and he said no, so guess he just isn’t into that.

Sophief's avatar

@Violet I thought you gave oral?

CMaz's avatar

“it sure beats semen.”

@deni – You are a bad girl!

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Violet We were discussing this question and interior design at the same time. Janbb thought Justine’s answer applied to this question, not the design question. In that context it struck us both as funny.

OpryLeigh's avatar

It doesn’t bother me at all. I will kiss him after he has been down on me and I will go down on him after he has been inside me. I can’t really say that it tastes of anything to be honest. Obviously it makes his manhood a bit slimy but that’s not an issue!

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

My lady has a musky almost rich smell and taste that is very noticeable, but which I really like. I can still smell and feel it the next morning. I’ve been with women with almost no smell or taste, and I prefer the musky smell. It just smells like a woman. I can’t detect any change after sex, her smell and taste don’t really change enough to be noticeable. I used to wipe my mouth on the sheets as I come back up the bed after oral, but I started not doing it so I could enjoy it longer and she didn’t seem to mind, but the thought was in the back of my mind.

deni's avatar

@ChazMaz hey there. pardon. have you ever tasted that stuff? thats what i THOUGHT! (/hoped…) lol

CMaz's avatar

I have been told it is quite tasty. ;-)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I got snowballed by a woman who told me not to come in her mouth. She gave me my first 69, I got excited and forgot the rule. I thought she was just going to kiss me for performing oral and instead got a big surprise. I wouldn’t call it tasty but it was kind of a turn on in some strange way.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Sorry, I wouldn’t want to try it again, but it will give you more appreciation for a woman that swallows.

Violet's avatar

@Dibley oh I totally give oral, I just have to finish the job with my hand, or through sex.
@Adirondackwannabe ok that’s what I thought, it was funny

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Violet I completely understand. It sure as hell isn’t candy. And I have never touched the back of a woman’s head when she’s giving me oral. It’s extremely funny in hindsight. It probably should be another of the required training elements for guys, so they know what they are asking their ladies to do.

TLRobinson's avatar

I will taste me on him after he completes dining on me; I taste good. I will taste him after he’s been in me and I have had him go for dessert after he’s had the main course.

Violet's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe I don’t like my head to be touched when I’m giving oral, even when I’m we’re doing BDSM. I am happy to hear you have proper receiving oral sex etiquette ; )

Sophief's avatar

@Violet That explains a lot, he is probably thinking that for him to do better, then you should finish the job. If he is clean then there is no bad taste. I was always wary of it, but he has never tasted bad.

Violet's avatar

@Dibley I have never been able to handle the taste of cum, and if I swallow any, I’m sick for hours. I can also do this trick with my mouth and hand to finish the job. It’s kind of hard to explain, but while he’s cumming, I only use pressure from the top and bottom of my lips, and leave space for the sides for the cum to just drip out.But I still end up tasting it We usually just do a little oral before sex, so he always cums from sex.

Just_Justine's avatar

@Violet I am intrigued at your comment. I have never tasted bad tasting cum? Maybe though some men have stronger tasting cum? So I find this topic now interesting!! Being bisexual I have tasted women who taste very strong, and others who don’t. I remarked on it to another women (about strong “smelling” tasting women) and seemed to think it was because the woman was unclean, however the women I can think of now was certainly not unclean by any means. I think certain women’s acid’s or whatever are just stronger. Perhaps it is the same with men. My lover has lovely “cum” he tastes like nothing much but slightly saltly. I have heard diet can affect the smell and taste. When I first answered this question about tasting myself on his lips, I realized that I have very little “taste” or smell. So it may also vary from women to women. But yeah, I think for me, and for him, the whole idea is to swallow! I think I’d hate it if a man was going down on me, then proceeded to “spit” into the sheets. But all sorts of fun things can be done with cum anyway, like spraying it all over ones face, hair, breasts or just watching it, and commenting. Just to make it more fun if the taste is bad. :)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Just_Justine @Dibley @Violet You ladies are nuts. I’m never asking a woman to swallow for the rest of my life. Been there done that.

Just_Justine's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe why on earth not? it’s just natural??

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

It’s natural, doesn’t mean it tastes good. I do a lot of things for my SO, I just appreciate now what guys are asking of their ladies to do when getting oral, and if she’d rather not, that’s fine too.

Violet's avatar

@Just_Justine for women, I believe it’s their ph balance that determines the smell and taste. I also think it is the diet that determines the tatse of a man’s cum.
Even when I was on Answerbag, I was the only women who cum made sick, and who didn’t like the taste of cum.I guess we all have different taste. Haha, get it? I’m such a dork.
@Adirondackwannabe You mean you asked women to swallow your cum? Did it turn you on your something? Have you ever tried your own cum?

phil196662's avatar

@Just_Justine ; Bravo!!! Nothing more arousing than a woman that smiles and takes her vitamin liquid and comes back for a second helping if available…

@Violet ; not a dork…nope- you likely make up for it in other ways I’ll get some rope, he he he

Violet's avatar

@phil196662 I’m pretty sure I’m a dork, but in a good way. And thank you so much

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Violet Go back a few answers where I said I got snowballed. That’s when a woman (I guess it could be a man as well) gives a man oral, lets him cum in their mouth and then without swallowing, transfers the semen into another person’s mouth and makes them swallow. That’s what the woman did to me. I’ve never asked someone to swallow, that’s their choice, I just understand all the dynamics now.

Violet's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe oh I must have missed that (lol, I do know what snowballing mean, and I think all men who want women to take cum in their mouth, should have to taste their own cum)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@Violet Now I don’t ask, I let them make up their own mind what they want to do. It was a good learning experience, and now a somewhat funny story.

Violet's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe that is very gentlemen of you (not being sarcastic)

Just_Justine's avatar

@Violet you are no dork! you sound like a lovely sexy lady! besides not swallowing gives loads of leeway to other adventures like sperm painting!! loll.

Violet's avatar

@Just_Justine Aw,thank you very much. And you are so right! When my boyfriend does the pull out method, I like it when he cums on me, and then smears it in. But it’s kind of awkward trying to get cum out of my belly button with a Q-tip afterwords.

Just_Justine's avatar

@Violet I like the “running comment” idea like wow look at that cum.. oooh baby so much cum, so hot, mmmm, while shooting over my face, mmmm does that feel good baby! Ok I will stop now !! The other day my lover came and I burst into hysterical laughter, no idea why it was just simply hilarious, I know sigh no hope for me! poor him :)

phil196662's avatar

@Violet ywc- btw- the woman like you (complement) that are different are always totally wild when you get them going and usually go the extra mile then go past the end and land in the safety sand to finally stop!

Story;

The wife and I have a friend we met several years ago, she is a stenographer. geeky glasses, buttons to her chin and hair in a bun, very little make-up and well educated in lots of weird stuff. Met her at a corner family type hangout with food, beer and pool and invited her to join in a pool game, we started doing wagers_to open the adventuresome sides and when the wife took out a small brown bag and said _If you win you can use the contents for whatever you want and she grinned and asked her quietly and it was the key to our toy box. The woman blushed redder than a beet and told her in a sultry voice wow- you guys get kinda wild? and the wife said wild is a tame term for us.

She would meet us every week and then we met for dinner and we surprised her at work a couple of times only for her to come over to one of our parties.

Off went the glasses, down with the hair and off with the shoes like the woman in this video with the _plush corner office!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mlB3cvh5Qg8

Violet's avatar

@phil196662 Why thank you : ) Is that a true story? When you met your wife, were you 2 at an equally kinky level?
@Just_Justine I actually don’t like cum on my face. My bf loves it though

FutureMemory's avatar

I don’t think this thread could get any more candid unless y’all started posting pics..damn!

Violet's avatar

@FutureMemory pics you say… (just kidding)

phil196662's avatar

Yes @Violet ; I had been already into it and she had wanted it for years but a birthday blunder (bag with scented foliage and collar and leash) delivered to her house helped her realize that she could finally cross into the expanded pleasure zone…Only to discover her limits were higher than she thought!

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