Could you cope if your s/o was scared of the bugs you were?

I am really really scared of spiders. Luckily my man isn’t. So he gets them and puts them out. I don’t think I would be comfortable being with someone who is also scared.

I am asking this because last night I nearly touched a spider by accident, and I turned into a proper girl, screaming, crying. He came down and took it outside and poured me a big Bailey’s to calm me down.

What would you do if your s/o was also scared of things that you were?