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Is it strange that my boyfriend and best friend have been going to the park together?

Asked by CloudXDream (71points) April 2nd, 2010

Yesterday I was on a three way call like I usualy do with my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend randomly said that he was going over my friends house and that they were going to go to the park. She hesitated then said ok.

Today the same exact thing happened and I dont know what it means? Maybe its just nothing and I’m just paranoid?

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wonderingwhy's avatar

Rather than worrying about it, just ask them.

mrentropy's avatar

It bothers me that your friend hesitated. Either she knew ahead of time and hesitated because she didn’t want you to know, or she hesitated because she totally didn’t know that your boyfriend was going to decide what she was going to do.

Either way, sounds odd to me.

Siren's avatar

I agree with @wonderingwhy and @mrentropy: Only one way to find out: ask him. It does sound odd and I would want to know. I’d ask your girlfriend too. Sometimes too nice can be too gullible.

janbb's avatar

Ask one of them what is going on. If you can do it without sounding accusatory, so much the better.

kevbo's avatar

Sounds like a job for Detective Gomez.

Snarp's avatar

Well, it’s certainly strange that they’re arranging it on a three way call with you. Scratch that, it’s strange that you’re having a three way call in the first place. No, scratch that, it’s strange any way you look at it.

CloudXDream's avatar

Oh and I also just learned that a few of my boyfriend’s friends are going as well. If that changes anything im not sure.

Siren's avatar

Why don’t you go too? What’s the secret?

cyn's avatar

Why won’t they invite you? Ask them. Maybe they’re going to get stoned. Are you against that? Sounds like you have “some” friends there. Err, good luck.

slick44's avatar

Dosn’t sound like good news to me. Sounds like somethings going on that shouldn’t be. Better nip it in the bud.

RandomMrAdam's avatar

@CloudXDream What do you think is going on? It probably is best just to ask them. If they seem secretive about it, then go to the park yourself and see if they are there. Do some investigative work ;)

ZEPHYRA's avatar

Start snooping around because it doesn’t sound good!

slick44's avatar

@RandomMrAdam .. ya hide behind some trees.

CMaz's avatar

Just throw him out. Save yourself some time.

oreo45's avatar

yep, just like when my ex and a friend were working out together…..dump them both!

marinelife's avatar

It does seem very odd.

stardust's avatar

I’d just ask them what it’s all about – it’ll save a lot of hassle and worry for you in the meantime. I don’t understand why they didn’t ask you to come. Hmm.. Any word since?

Captain_Fantasy's avatar

Totally weird. You sure he’s being faithful?

davidbetterman's avatar

Maybe they are planning a surprise for you.

mrentropy's avatar

@CloudXDream If your boyfriend’s friend is a guy, maybe he’s trying to set the two up.

CMaz's avatar

If you did not have a sore throat, this would not have been an issue.

stardust's avatar

@davidbetterman That crossed my mind

CloudXDream's avatar

My boyfriend said that I should come today but only when I said in a kidding way “Oh, I feel so left out!’. I asked my mom and she said no but appearently they are going tomorow and Im going to go check it out and watch them and see what happens.

janbb's avatar

I wowuld not sneak behind their backs to “watch.” That is the surest way to lose the trust of each fo them. I would be direct and ask what they are doing.

CloudXDream's avatar

True. I just tried to call my boyfriend and he wouldnt answer and neither would my friend. And @ChazMaz ; sore throat?

cyn's avatar

ask them for a share of weed!!

CloudXDream's avatar

I dont smoke or do drugs.

janbb's avatar

The question is: do they?

slick44's avatar

Dump that zero, and find yourself a hero!

Glow's avatar

I agree with asking him. Once you do, update us on the situation. It is hard for any of us to say much with simply the information you gave.

If you can’t contact him or her, maybe you can call one of the friends he was going with?

CloudXDream's avatar

My friend answered her phone finally. She told me that it was boring and that my boyfriend and his friend got in a verbal fight and were fighting most of the time so she just went home she said. I tried calling my boyfriend and his phone was turned off because he is grounded for some reason. And thats all I have for now.

CMaz's avatar

“my boyfriend and his friend got in a verbal fight and were fighting most of the time ”

Fighting over the girl.

CloudXDream's avatar

@ChazMaz Maybe. And what did you mean about me having a sore throat?

CMaz's avatar

This, post. ;-)

Referring to a stuffed nose. I just changed it to sore throat.

You have to bare with me. Sometimes I just crack myself up. Too much crack.

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