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Am I infatuated here, what should I do, is it wrong to ask her out?

Asked by Steve_A (5125points) April 7th, 2010

Well, I hate to ask this question because I suppose it is a little obvious but I feel I really do like this woman.

You see, couple months ago we had a new supervisor the first time I saw her I thought she was a very attractive woman and so quickly I offered to help her around a little bit. That day I showed where the employee cafeteria,office,etc and we both had lunch together and talked,and it she is just so easy going yet,down to earth and intelligent.

Everyday we pretty much talk and it is so easy to joke or talk to her it can be something serious like the news or something random.

And often I tend to flirt with her like an idiot as I probably should not, like when they need to run a report for something they ask for you ID number, and I’m like “So you want my number huh?” or the main floor is kinda warm and she will say it is hot in here “Well it is probably just you ya know right??” and well you get the idea…..

Lame and cheesy I know but she always just laughs or smiles about it, so I figure no harm no foul…right?

But you see I really like her the more I get to know her or just be around her, but she must be in her 30s maybe 40s? (She looks great though trust me and I don’t see a ring) Plus shes my supervisor.

Would it be wrong to possibly ask her out, ya know just for something simple like coffee or something??

Or should I just stay infatuated and just admire from a distance if you will?

Did I mention I love her work attitude too she just tells you what is wrong, just right to the point but fair and respectful, I love her honesty….Anyways I will shut up now. :)

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