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(NSFW) Have you ever cried during or after an orgasm?

Asked by Vunessuh (16727points) April 9th, 2010

This is a two-part question.

My roommate has never had an orgasm. She’s 27 years old. We were talking about it last night and she says that when she thinks she’s about to have one, she immediately withdraws and puts up some sort of physical and/or mental block/guard. She can’t quite figure out why. We think it may be some sort of a trust issue between her and her boyfriend, including every boyfriend she’s had in the past. She doesn’t know if she’s afraid of having one or doesn’t know what to expect or if she’s thinking too hard or too little about one during intercourse.

1) Have you or do you know someone who’s never had an orgasm or experienced their first orgasm much later in life? How did you or they cope with this?

As we began talking more in-depth about her issue, I brought up the fact that I’ve actually cried directly after an orgasm. I explained to her that it wasn’t because I was sad or because I was like, ”Omg, that was the best ever, waahhhhh” but because it was another form of release, and in this case, an emotional release and that sometimes orgasms can trigger other emotions within you. (As far as I know, this is relatively normal in women, I hope.)

2) Have you ever cried during or directly after having an orgasm? Did these emotions confuse you and were you embarrassed to be crying in front of your partner?

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