Which religion has "it" right?

At first I was going to ask this: “Regarding differences between one’s religious upbringing and adulthood beliefs, how does one reconcile contradictions that seem no-win either way?” No-win either way means this: to remain on the path of the religious upbringing would be to commit soul-suicide, to deviate from the path would be to run the risk of failure (as defined by the religious tradition).

The more I think about it, the more I wonder: Which religion has “it” (whatever “it” is) right in the first place? After all the arguments have been made, who wins?