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Did you know you can actually make people fall in love with you?

Asked by nebule (16452points) April 12th, 2010

I just read an article entitled Let Your Love Flow in April’s UK edition of Psychologies, written by David Servan-Schreiber who states that ‘By finding out what triggers the release of the bonding hormone oxytocin in each of us, we can strengthen our bonds of love’ and basically all you have to do in order to do that if find out which of the five languages of love the person you are wishing to devour fits into: (I’d call them weak spots personally)

1) words of affirmation (you are beeeautiful)
2) quality time (take them to the cinema)
3) receiving gifts (buy flowers)
4) acts of service (do the washing up)
5) physical touch (cuddles…and…what not!)

Funnily enough, an ex of mine started reading a book about this (shortly before we broke up ironically!) as I recall… but this article literally states that all we need to do is open ‘the right doors in their brain’ (by pressing on the relevant weak spot…sorry door..from above list) and bobs your uncle – oxytocin is released…bonds are formed… (apparently this happens with mother and child too when breastfeeding….) Is this all there is to it??

Of course not surely?... your thoughts…fellow lurvers… :-)

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