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Can a guy tell when you're jealous?

Asked by Love_or_Like (443points) April 21st, 2010

When i’m jealous my friend can tell. Then he will make something up or hug me and kiss me. Is that how all guys are and how can they tell?

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Sophief's avatar

He just knows you, that’s all. My boyfriend can tell, and the more I try to hide it, the more he can tell.

wonderingwhy's avatar

I’ve always found it to be largely dependent on how close I am to someone. A lot of it is just paying attention and getting to know the other person. And no, that’s not how all guys are but I’ll stick up for them and say most are capable of it.

Love_or_Like's avatar

@wonderingwhy allmost all guys can….
@Sophief I guess he knows me alot… :)

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wundayatta's avatar

Often women will ask pointed questions about someone. Or they will ask you all kinds of questions about where you’ve been or what you’re doing. Or they will look at the person they are jealous of with tension in their body.

When a woman is jealous, she tends to get an edge to her voice—a kind of insecurity shows up. She’ll keep trying to involve you in all kinds of things that might prevent you from having opportunities to meet the object of jealousy, or she’ll invite herself along when boyfriend is meeting object of jealousy, or she’ll show up unexpectedly at some place where boyfriend and ooj are both at.

Are you trying to be able to hide your jealousy? If so, why?

beautifulbobby193's avatar

It’s easy to tell when a girl is jealous. They regularly start behaving in a very volatile and sometimes desperate way when this occurs.

Love_or_Like's avatar

@wundayatta
Yes because I’m jealous with my friend we just friends but I like him. He talks/ed to another girl and I saw him. I got jealous with him. He told me not to be jealous because they were just friends. He asked me if I had a problem with that I said no because I don’t want him to know. We were at work then we went outside. He hugged me and kissed me and told me not to be jealous. Then I was very red. If you can check out the other problem I have if you could gave me some advice…. So you will understand it. I don’t want him to find out because we just friends.

meagan's avatar

Just don’t get jealous. Didn’t you say it was your ex boyfriend? There are millions of men out there.

Love_or_Like's avatar

Naw girl that was long time ago like 2 years ago but the guy i talk to is my friend with benefits

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