Parents: do you prefer one child over another, or do you actually "love them all equally"?

I have a girl and a boy in that order. I feel blessed.

I think that when you have a first born girl, as opposed to a boy, things fall into place better. Just my opinion and observation, bear with me; first-borns are special, as we shower them with all the love and praise and warmth as our first child. The thrill, the excitement, the expectations….

Then comes the second and then the third. You know what I mean…

But when the second is a boy, he is then your little prince – your first born SON and again something of wonder, newness, expectations…

Right?

Perhaps it’s only me.