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How do I move on?
My recent ex-boyfriend and I have been through so much together. My freshman year (college) away from home, depression, him losing a job, tight money, long distance, and age difference. We pushed through all of this for about 9 months while I was away, hoping that the petty arguements and out-of-proportion fights were just from the distance and stress of life. Now, two weekends in a row, we couldn’t make it work, and it’s over for good. We still love each other, in spite of everything and all the reasons it shouldn’t work, but I have a lot of growing up to do. I want to be his friend, even if I can’t be ‘with’ him, because I do love him and he has helped me through so much. I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t know how to let us both move on and not hurt each other. With my last long-term ex, I just didn’t love him anymore, but this isn’t the case here. I know it’s kind of a vague question and complicated scenario, but any advice? Similar situations?
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